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golf299
10-19-2004, 12:56 PM
Hey guys & gals! I was just wondering what your thoughts/experiences are with dating people that are in your pharmacy class...

MNnaloxone
10-19-2004, 01:24 PM
Do like I did. Date someone in the class ahead of you. That way you get the old tests, old notes, a proofer, and a source of income your P4 year.

:D

koreykat
10-19-2004, 02:34 PM
lol. Sounds like a good idea to me.

lord999
10-19-2004, 05:29 PM
Not to say MNaloxone was joking, but a serious other reason as well, if it doesn't work out, you don't have to see them every day for the next 3 years.

MNnaloxone
10-20-2004, 05:10 AM
No joke-we're getting married this February in Jamaica. :cool:

Roxicet
10-20-2004, 12:20 PM
I would never date anyone in my class. I agree with lord999 that I wouldn't want to be stuck with them for another three years after things go to hell. That's not to say, however that I don't find anyone in my class attractive. I did a "ring scan" to see who's married, but even if someone's not married, they're most likely in a relationship. I try to keep the married ones out of my "daydreaming". :D The fantasy is usually much better than the reality, anyway. I've had some really good dreams lately. :meanie:

bananaface
10-20-2004, 02:36 PM
I swear that the pharmacy admissions process at UW is designed to weed out attractive males. *pout*

lord999
10-20-2004, 03:45 PM
Try Minnesota or Montana then ;)


I swear that the pharmacy admissions process at UW is designed to weed out attractive males. *pout*

busupshot83
10-20-2004, 09:41 PM
Try Minnesota or Montana then ;)

don't worry gurl, date dental students

ultracet
10-21-2004, 09:56 AM
I'm afriad to comment in this topic...
I haven't dated anyone in my class but if you do realize that everyone in your class will be involved in your relationship. They will know every detail and share in the ups and downs.
If you like that sort of thing.. Have fun!

MNnaloxone
10-21-2004, 11:08 AM
lord-

Shameless...you from MT?

baggywrinkle
10-21-2004, 12:52 PM
Hey guys & gals! I was just wondering what your thoughts/experiences are with dating people that are in your pharmacy class...

at your peril:
dating students in your class
risky business:
dating nurses or anyone else where you work. When it goes south
the entire hospital is mad at you
Downright foolish
dating your techs or fellow pharmacists.
(let's play harrassment chicken and see who wins)

HAVING SAID THAT, my wife was once my tech.....bad juju...the only reason
I even considered it was because I was LEAVING!!!!! ;)

Call me silly, call me extreme, I wouldn't even socialize in the town where I worked. GENERAL RULE OF THUMB; don't play in your own backyard if you
value your privacy or your paycheck.

jdpharmd?
10-21-2004, 05:58 PM
I date my classmate... Heck, I live with her too! Life is good here, out on the edge! ;)

Dr.BadVibes
10-21-2004, 07:24 PM
don't worry gurl, date dental students

Agreed...once you go dental, you wont look back! :hardy:

I wouldnt mind meeting some pharm chicks at my school.....

a_student
10-23-2004, 12:19 PM
Agreed...once you go dental, you wont look back! :hardy:

I wouldnt mind meeting some pharm chicks at my school.....


If your looking for a source of guys to date goto the nearby medical school. They are filled with single, young, attractive, smart guys (that would never date their classmates).

busupshot83
10-23-2004, 02:10 PM
If your looking for a source of guys to date goto the nearby medical school. They are filled with single, young, attractive, smart guys (that would never date their classmates).

DOn't forget to mention guys that won't have time for you once they graduate and are in residency. :p

jemc2000
10-23-2004, 02:45 PM
I've considered dating in pharmacy school, but I am sure my husband wouldn't like it. :laugh:

imperial frog
10-23-2004, 05:20 PM
My wife would be sooooo pissed.

busupshot83
10-23-2004, 09:23 PM
Haha you guys are crazy. That's why you creep on the down-low ;) .

mark-ER
10-24-2004, 09:32 AM
No, date medical students, especially here at Michigan. We are really weak in pharm, ahem, I mean our 'curriculum' is weak in pharm. ;)

emogrrrrl
10-24-2004, 05:25 PM
Personally, not only would I not date anyone in my class, but in pharmacy school in general. I have always preferred dating someone who isn't in the same exact field of study or work, I feel like it brings a certain type of balance to my life. There's something about going to work and having to come home to work if your SO happens to be in the same field. Yes, they can be more understanding and sympathetic to your day, but it's too much for me. Plus, I like it when my SO can tell me about their day and I am able to learn something new about the world through their work. It's always nice to have someone who thinks outside of the box that you may be contained within.

Caverject
07-23-2008, 02:35 PM
bringing a fun topic back from the dead....so would you date your classmate???

All4MyDaughter
07-23-2008, 02:44 PM
Maybe Rxwildcat but I heard he has fleas...

Caverject
07-23-2008, 02:53 PM
Maybe Rxwildcat but I heard he has fleas...
maybe he needs some of this...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNlt0D_xba4

njac
07-23-2008, 03:19 PM
first year was a bit wild. I went the pharmacist route.

My boyfriend starts 1st year this fall, I'm a 4th year so that will work out well for him. Too bad the curriculum changed right after my class.

I'm a big fan of don't poo where you eat. But I also don't know if I could date someone at this point who isn't also in school. They wouldn't need to be in the same program but at least remember the fun of grad school.

FruitFly
07-23-2008, 04:22 PM
Why on earth would someone want to date someone in their pharmacy class? (unless it's final year and you don't have to see them all the time). Folks need to get out a little more and date grad students or whomever, at least outside of their lecture hall. My current gf is a nurse student.

PharmDstudent
07-23-2008, 04:42 PM
bringing a fun topic back from the dead....so would you date your classmate???Nah.
I like pharmacists though. :love:

FruitFly
07-23-2008, 05:05 PM
I like actresses...

PharmDstudent
07-23-2008, 05:43 PM
I like actresses...Pharmacists are easier to come by, and they know how to work their corner... drug store. :meanie:

FruitFly
07-23-2008, 07:40 PM
Pharmacists are easier to come by, and they know how to work their corner... drug store. :meanie:

lol true

Jbuprepharm
07-23-2008, 08:44 PM
a couple in our class is getting married next month

other than that, I think everyone was already dating or married, so they're the only intraclass couple

nnguyenc
07-23-2008, 09:30 PM
a lot guys i know are the uncommitted type

but all of a sudden feeling ready to pop the question when
she is about to graduate from pharmacy school...

...makes me wonder

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 01:16 AM
a lot guys i know are the uncommitted type

but all of a sudden feeling ready to pop the question when
she is about to graduate from pharmacy school...

...makes me wonder

That's why I am proposing to my gf, who is soon to inherite a few millions as her father's health is slowly but steady going down hill.

nerv12345
07-24-2008, 03:42 AM
a lot guys i know are the uncommitted type

but all of a sudden feeling ready to pop the question when
she is about to graduate from pharmacy school...

...makes me wonder

works both ways

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 07:19 AM
That's why I am proposing to my gf, who is soon to inherite a few millions as her father's health is slowly but steady going down hill.I hope she says no. :meanie:

Beware ladies! The golddiggers are everywhere! :scared:

pharmdinfl
07-24-2008, 08:31 AM
I met my husband in pharmacy school. :D We started dating our 2nd year of school and married the year after graduation. Now we both work for the same company and have matching schedules which is completely awesome! :love:

FruitFly
07-24-2008, 09:33 AM
I hope she says no.

Beware ladies! The golddiggers are everywhere! :scared:

Time to marry a pharmacist girl n strike it rich. YEEEEHAW!! :meanie: lol

njac
07-24-2008, 11:09 AM
our preceptor today, for life advice, told us not to marry anyone with poor relatives.

he was dead serious.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 11:20 AM
our preceptor today, for life advice, told us not to marry anyone with poor relatives.

he was dead serious.Some people don't know how to break their "poor people" habits.

Sometimes I have to beat my bf over the head about money. He doesn't know how to be cheap without being poor. It's as if you have to be poor to forgo things. :rolleyes:

We're working on it though... The budgeting that I had talked about in the "I make plenty of money but I fell poor because I throw it all away" thread went very well, and now he's insured with a nice policy to work on his own. :D

FruitFly
07-24-2008, 12:38 PM
our preceptor today, for life advice, told us not to marry anyone with poor relatives.

he was dead serious.

That's a little overboard. A tinge of elitism in that, too... I have millionaire relatives (who probably have about 10X your preceptor's bankroll, and that's being courteous) and I have 'poor' relatives but a good person's a good person. Funny thing is, at least from my experience, my richer relatives will get you investing a lot more in their line of business/firms than my poorer ones.

Wallet size is no simple surrogate for personality. Also depends on what your definition of 'poor' is. I've known folks who wouldn't date a pharmacist in 1000years, because "only ~ $100k/yr - $140k/yr is no sugar daddy". I would take some things with a grain of salt. The guy's a preceptor of pharmacy, right? Not a preceptor in life...

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 01:24 PM
Sometimes I have to beat my bf over the head about money.

Not too surprise that you are a bf beater. Here's a free advice: get rid of the zero and get with the hero.

njac
07-24-2008, 01:35 PM
Fruit Fly - I thought it was funny, not a statement the rest of us took to heart.

Simmer down! I should've added more to it, but I think many of us do know that good people come in all flavors just like jerk people come in all flavors. (That totally sounds like people jerky or like a jamaican jerk dish lol)

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 06:58 PM
Not too surprise that you are a bf beater. Here's a free advice: get rid of the zero and get with the hero.English isn't your first language, obviously. :rolleyes:

I like to get things done my way. Every alpha needs her beta. ;)
Therefore, the domineering, "hero" types are useless. Frankly, I never fall for the lookers or high rollers, because they just get in my way, and I'm not about to do someone else's dirty work.

SpirivaSunrise
07-24-2008, 07:34 PM
And what about the workplace?

How would you all say no when someone asks...and prevent it from being awkward in the future?

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 07:42 PM
I like to get things done my way. Every alpha needs her beta. ;)

Some girls like girly guys. I am glad you have found yours.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 07:47 PM
What about when a customer is blatantly hitting on you, and then the next guy in line, who just so happens to have graduated dental school last year, starts hitting on you, too? How do you deal with the dentist, on his next visit, when he brings up the fact that the guy in front of him that day was being obnoxious? Oh, and how do you deal with the obnoxious guy when he comes in next time?
Lastly, how do you deal with the electrical guy who wants to know if you'll have a daiquiri with him after you get off from work?

PharmDstudent's solution: just count the pills and stay under the radar whenever possible.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 07:48 PM
Some girls like girly guys. Some guys like to be golddiggers. :meanie:I am glad you have found yours.Ditto.

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:02 PM
Some guys like to be golddiggers.

Yeah, the smart ones.

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:03 PM
PharmDstudent's solution: just count the pills and stay under the radar whenever possible.

Don't pretend like you are so desirable.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:04 PM
BMBiology-
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I'm happy with my "girly" "zero". :cool:

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:06 PM
Don't pretend like you are so desirable.I usually have to laugh it off. :o

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:06 PM
Then you have bad taste or just low standards.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:07 PM
Then you have bad taste or just low standards.Your only standard is $$$$$$$$ (note the eight figures).

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:08 PM
Guilty and kinda proud.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:11 PM
Guilty and kinda proud.Whatever... I don't see what you have to be proud of. If you don't make it on your own, then someone else is spoon feeding you.

Knipps
07-24-2008, 08:13 PM
A lot of the guys at work encourage me to continue dating the girl I'm with because I'd never have to worry about money.. It just so happens she's the boss/owner's daughter:meanie:

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:13 PM
It is not about making it on your own. It is about not having to worry about the other person and living life like you deserve. Something you can't do with your girly broke bf.

OleMiss2012
07-24-2008, 08:20 PM
That's obviously the best PharmDstudent can do....leave her alone.

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:22 PM
She still got a shot. That dentist she mentioned may come back for his acyclovir soon.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:23 PM
It is not about making it on your own. It is about not having to worry about the other person and living life like you deserve. Something you can't do with your girly broke bf.Who is opening his own electrical company in post-Katrina New Orleans in a couple of weeks. Does $50-100/hour for his labor sound better to you?

You remind me of the fat cat pharmacist who took half of my co-worker's specialty birthday cake home with him today, because he doesn't know when enough's enough. :rolleyes:

It isn't always about the money... or the prestige... or god only knows what else you'll bring up...

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:25 PM
She still got a shot. That dentist she mentioned may come back for his acyclovir soon. STDs are super scary. They make my bones cringe. :scared:

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:28 PM
Who is opening his own electrical company in post-Katrina New Orleans in a couple of weeks. Does $50-100/hour for his labor sound better to you?

It isn't always about the money... or the prestige... or god only knows what else you'll bring up...

So it is not about money and prestige but you sure know when to pull those cards out. Oh wait, doing electrical work is not so....

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:38 PM
So it is not about money and prestige but you sure know when to pull those cards out. Oh wait, doing electrical work is not so....No. It's not like that. You have to wait a while before you can become a master electrician, which usually means living in poverty. He's been doing an apprenticeship, which is sort of like an internship, this entire time. Although, the debt hasn't pilled up like it does in a graduate program.

He isn't waiting for someone to die in order to get rich like another person I know...

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:38 PM
double post

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:41 PM
You didn't let me finish. Doing electrical work is not so boring!

njac
07-24-2008, 08:42 PM
good lord. way to make things personal you two!

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:46 PM
He isn't waiting for someone to die in order to get rich like another person I know...

He's just waiting for you to step into a shower that has bad electrical works.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:49 PM
You didn't let me finish. Doing electrical work is not so boring!As what? Pharmacy? Prestige? Money? You lost me on that one.

This is how I see it. I want to live how I want to live and not under someone else's thumb. I'll live out in the middle of nowhere to avoid a whinny neighbor who wants to nit-pick every detail about my home's exterior and knocks on my door when my grass needs to be cut. I don't care about who makes the most or what the hell I drive.

Money equals status. Status is meaningless unless it involves personal growth and achievement.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:49 PM
He's just waiting for you to step into a shower that has bad electrical works.:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:51 PM
I want to live how I want to live and not under someone else's thumb.

You don't want to live under his thumb but you sure want him to live under yours. You must have one big thumb.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:57 PM
You don't want to live under his thumb but you sure want him to live under yours. You must have one big thumb.He doesn't care about that kind of stuff. I wish I could explain it, but beta is the best that I've got.

You reap what you sow, right?

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 08:58 PM
good lord. way to make things personal you two!Hopefully this has some entertainment value...

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 08:59 PM
He doesn't care about that kind of stuff. I wish I could explain it, but beta is the best that I've got.

Maybe he does but he's too afraid to speak up. That is if you let him speak at all. I guess some guys like to wear the panties in the family.

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 09:00 PM
My eye is hurting. Allergy perhaps. I've gotta go...

PharmDstudent
07-24-2008, 09:04 PM
Maybe he does but he's too afraid to speak up. That is if you let him speak at all. I guess some guys like to wear the panties in the family.He isn't that innocent. Shy, but not innocent.

Panties are optional for women in my family. For Example: At my uncle's wedding reception, my aunt said that you can't tell a (my family's last name here) woman what to do. I think she's right.

BMBiology
07-24-2008, 09:06 PM
He isn't that innocent. Shy, but not innocent.

...he's a pervert?

VP_Pharm2004
07-25-2008, 01:32 AM
In my class, one guy had a divorce and a religion change... all in the name of pharmacy "love". :rolleyes:

SexyPlexi
07-25-2008, 08:26 AM
My eye is hurting. Allergy perhaps. I've gotta go...


lol I am picturing you using your middle finger to scratch your eye

PharmDstudent
07-25-2008, 11:05 AM
...he's a pervert?I've never met a man who wasn't...

PharmDstudent
07-25-2008, 11:08 AM
lol I am picturing you using your middle finger to scratch your eye:laugh: Nah. You have to beat BMBiology over the head sometimes for him to see a different perspective. That's all. ;)

For whatever reason, my eyes are still itching. I hope it goes away before I have to go to work. Fexofenadine, I'm on my way.

jtwcamel
07-30-2008, 05:37 AM
I started dating a girl p2 year but we didnt break up til we were off on rotations. Still it kinda sucked having her tell my classmates every single detail about our relationship after that.

monsterbrain
07-30-2008, 09:52 AM
In my class, one guy had a divorce and a religion change... all in the name of pharmacy "love". :rolleyes:

I can kinda understand. I go to school with some hot young guys. If I weren't married.....:D

mmafan
07-30-2008, 09:54 PM
I go to school with some hot young guys. If I weren't married.....:D

What a small world! We must go to the same school. Married women are fine with me as long as their husbands aren't Mike Tyson or Kimbo Slice.

monsterbrain
07-31-2008, 08:45 PM
What a small world! We must go to the same school. Married women are fine with me as long as their husbands aren't Mike Tyson or Kimbo Slice.

For shame, mmafan, tsk...tsk...tsk. ;) We can't possibly go to the same school because all the hot guys at my school are "good boys." :D

MindOverMatter
08-04-2008, 07:47 PM
My preceptor at my last rotation gave me a piece of advice: "If you want to do good in pharmacy school, date the smartest girl in the class." I took his advice... I'll keep you posted on how it turns out.

monsterbrain
08-05-2008, 07:37 AM
My preceptor at my last rotation gave me a piece of advice: "If you want to do good in pharmacy school, date the smartest girl in the class." I took his advice... I'll keep you posted on how it turns out.

I live with the smartest girl in the class; does that count?