Originally Posted by BrightLight (Post 12216528)

They got together and even had a baby. Although it is their personal life and the poor mgr was probably thirsty for love, for some reason this just feels weird to me. Would this be considered a conflict of interest since the intern might be given special favor as the result of this relationship?

Originally Posted by BrightLight (Post 12216528)

They got together and even had a baby. Although it is their personal life and the poor mgr was probably thirsty for love, for some reason this just feels weird to me. Would this be considered a conflict of interest since the intern might be given special favor as the result of this relationship?

And sorry for those who entered this thread with a little extra anticipation, I don't have graphic details for you.

Originally Posted by cycloketocaine (Post 12222537)

I don't get why people care so much about who's banging who in today's society. It is none of your business.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12222522)

If the person is in his 20s...no big deal.

If the person is in his 30s or 40s...it's a big deal. Because you are 40 years old nailing a 21 year old. Congrats, you're awesome.

Pretty much all there is to it.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12222522)

If the person is in his 20s...no big deal.

If the person is in his 30s or 40s...it's a big deal. Because you are 40 years old nailing a 21 year old. Congrats, you're awesome.

Pretty much all there is to it.

Originally Posted by SHC1984 (Post 12229958)

Why would anyone in their twenties want to date anyone in their 40s? I mean unless that person in their 40s have a sh*t load of money (MUCH MUCH MUCH more than a pharmacist or doctor) I wouldn't even consider it. Just saying. I don't see the benefit at all for the 21 year old in this case.

Originally Posted by All4MyDaughter (Post 12229969)

Right because people are never simply attracted to each other or just fall in love or anything. It's all about the money...

Originally Posted by Old Timer (Post 12230622)

It is ALWAYS inappropriate for someone in a supervisory position to have a sexual or personal relationship with a subordinate. The legal liability is staggering for you and your employer. It is not a relationship of equals. The Pharmacist has power over the career of the intern. If the pharmacist does not sign off on the hours, no license. It's wrong on just about every level.

If you fall in love, then one of you finds a new job or transfers to a different store/division/region or whatever.

Originally Posted by SHC1984 (Post 12229958)

Why would anyone in their twenties want to date anyone in their 40s? I mean unless that person in their 40s have a sh*t load of money (MUCH MUCH MUCH more than a pharmacist or doctor) I wouldn't even consider it. Just saying. I don't see the benefit at all for the 21 year old in this case.

Originally Posted by TemSirolimus (Post 12230944)

I can always trust Old Timer to say something full of wisdom.

Old Timer- what are your thoughts about dating where you work?

Originally Posted by Ackj (Post 12231033)

"Sugar daddy" would be the only thing that makes sense to me. I don't have a clue how you could have a natural attraction to someone double your age. The times you see this happen, it is either an old person with $$$$, some kind of control/broken home/daddy issue thing, or celebrities. None of those are a foundation for a positive or healthy relationship.

More power to the 40 year old, sure. But what the heck 21 year old? Can't find anybody your own age? Maybe they're trying to use this to leverage an advantage in the pharmacy? Who knows.

Originally Posted by TemSirolimus (Post 12230944)

I can always trust Old Timer to say something full of wisdom.

Old Timer- what are your thoughts about dating where you work?

Originally Posted by Old Timer (Post 12231191)

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

I read that article in Philly Mag. It was ****ing stupid.

There isn't a problem with young men. The problem is that there are idiot women that don't realize that video games, porn, and hanging out with friends is a better option than getting married and having a serious relationship. "Relationships" are always tilted towards having more benefits for women. It's ingrained into American thought. Marriage itself is just a 50% chance of losing more than 50% of what you've earned as well as an almost guaranteed loss of custody of your children with the requirement of paying child support to a woman that now hates you...and she doesn't even have to keep records on what the child support went to. So your kids are now being raised by some deadbeat your wife ran off with and you are paying them hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars a month. But, hey, you get to see them every other weekend.

Then you have the fact that the feminist movement went waaaaay too far. These women want to have careers, equal pay, all that good ****. And there's nothing wrong with that. But they still want the chivalry bull**** to go along with it inside of interpersonal sexual relationships. You expect to be treated like a queen and for men to buy you ****...make your Valentine's Day "special"...hold the door open...blah, blah, blah. NO! You don't get to have your cake and eat it, too. And an entire generation of young men have reached a point of disillusionment. What's the point of a serious relationship? Men get NOTHING out of it with the typical, American Gen Y woman. Unless they are old. Then it makes sense. Because they are desperate for a "real man" and way hotter than the 35-45 year olds they are usually stuck with.

This also show the hypocrisy of American society. It's fine for women to redefine what it means to be a woman. But if a man does it, it's wrong. Men aren't allowed to redefine what it means to be a man. Men (heterosexuals, anyway) aren't allowed to weak pink, listen to Lady Gaga, or whatever. They have to be what they are told to be. Well, what if this generation of men want to do what THEY want to do? Women can redefine their gender roles but men can't? Ridiculous.

So, to the women of Gen Y. It's not us, its you. Most of you typically just suck. You aren't worth it.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

I read that article in Philly Mag. It was ****ing stupid.

There isn't a problem with young men. The problem is that there are idiot women that don't realize that video games, porn, and hanging out with friends is a better option than getting married and having a serious relationship. "Relationships" are always tilted towards having more benefits for women. It's ingrained into American thought. Marriage itself is just a 50% chance of losing more than 50% of what you've earned as well as an almost guaranteed loss of custody of your children with the requirement of paying child support to a woman that now hates you...and she doesn't even have to keep records on what the child support went to. So your kids are now being raised by some deadbeat your wife ran off with and you are paying them hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars a month. But, hey, you get to see them every other weekend.

Then you have the fact that the feminist movement went waaaaay too far. These women want to have careers, equal pay, all that good ****. And there's nothing wrong with that. But they still want the chivalry bull**** to go along with it inside of interpersonal sexual relationships. You expect to be treated like a queen and for men to buy you ****...make your Valentine's Day "special"...hold the door open...blah, blah, blah. NO! You don't get to have your cake and eat it, too. And an entire generation of young men have reached a point of disillusionment. What's the point of a serious relationship? Men get NOTHING out of it with the typical, American Gen Y woman. Unless they are old. Then it makes sense. Because they are desperate for a "real man" and way hotter than the 35-45 year olds they are usually stuck with.

This also show the hypocrisy of American society. It's fine for women to redefine what it means to be a woman. But if a man does it, it's wrong. Men aren't allowed to redefine what it means to be a man. Men (heterosexuals, anyway) aren't allowed to weak pink, listen to Lady Gaga, or whatever. They have to be what they are told to be. Well, what if this generation of men want to do what THEY want to do? Women can redefine their gender roles but men can't? Ridiculous.

So, to the women of Gen Y. It's not us, its you. Most of you typically just suck. You aren't worth it.

I was lucky enough that I got one that is rational. For example, she thinks Valentine's Day is stupid and doesn't want children. If I bought her something for Valentine's Day she'd probably get pissed off at me for being a giant, whipped ***** AND for perpetuating an invented holiday. I'm the luckiest dude on the planet. Hell, she loves WVU athletics, too. She rode on a ****ty NJ Transit train to NYC (aka, the most overrated city on the planet) yesterday to watch my team lose. And she was just as pissed off as I was. I pity the rest of you saps. Going out on Valentine's Day. Buying a $50,000 wedding (I went to a courthouse). Most women treat their men like wage slaves. It's just the truth.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

I read that article in Philly Mag. It was ****ing stupid.

There isn't a problem with young men. The problem is that there are idiot women that don't realize that video games, porn, and hanging out with friends is a better option than getting married and having a serious relationship. "Relationships" are always tilted towards having more benefits for women. It's ingrained into American thought. Marriage itself is just a 50% chance of losing more than 50% of what you've earned as well as an almost guaranteed loss of custody of your children with the requirement of paying child support to a woman that now hates you...and she doesn't even have to keep records on what the child support went to. So your kids are now being raised by some deadbeat your wife ran off with and you are paying them hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars a month. But, hey, you get to see them every other weekend.

Then you have the fact that the feminist movement went waaaaay too far. These women want to have careers, equal pay, all that good ****. And there's nothing wrong with that. But they still want the chivalry bull**** to go along with it inside of interpersonal sexual relationships. You expect to be treated like a queen and for men to buy you ****...make your Valentine's Day "special"...hold the door open...blah, blah, blah. NO! You don't get to have your cake and eat it, too. And an entire generation of young men have reached a point of disillusionment. What's the point of a serious relationship? Men get NOTHING out of it with the typical, American Gen Y woman. Unless they are old. Then it makes sense. Because they are desperate for a "real man" and way hotter than the 35-45 year olds they are usually stuck with.

This also show the hypocrisy of American society. It's fine for women to redefine what it means to be a woman. But if a man does it, it's wrong. Men aren't allowed to redefine what it means to be a man. Men (heterosexuals, anyway) aren't allowed to weak pink, listen to Lady Gaga, or whatever. They have to be what they are told to be. Well, what if this generation of men want to do what THEY want to do? Women can redefine their gender roles but men can't? Ridiculous.

So, to the women of Gen Y. It's not us, its you. Most of you typically just suck. You aren't worth it.

I was lucky enough that I got one that is rational. For example, she thinks Valentine's Day is stupid and doesn't want children. If I bought her something for Valentine's Day she'd probably get pissed off at me for being a giant, whipped ***** AND for perpetuating an invented holiday. I'm the luckiest dude on the planet. Hell, she loves WVU athletics, too. She rode on a ****ty NJ Transit train to NYC (aka, the most overrated city on the planet) yesterday to watch my team lose. And she was just as pissed off as I was. I pity the rest of you saps. Going out on Valentine's Day. Buying a $50,000 wedding (I went to a courthouse). Most women treat their men like wage slaves. It's just the truth.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

You expect to be treated like a queen and for men to buy you ****...make your Valentine's Day "special"...hold the door open...blah, blah, blah. NO!

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

I read that article in Philly Mag. It was ****ing stupid.

There isn't a problem with young men. The problem is that there are idiot women that don't realize that video games, porn, and hanging out with friends is a better option than getting married and having a serious relationship. "Relationships" are always tilted towards having more benefits for women. It's ingrained into American thought. Marriage itself is just a 50% chance of losing more than 50% of what you've earned as well as an almost guaranteed loss of custody of your children with the requirement of paying child support to a woman that now hates you...and she doesn't even have to keep records on what the child support went to. So your kids are now being raised by some deadbeat your wife ran off with and you are paying them hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars a month. But, hey, you get to see them every other weekend.

Then you have the fact that the feminist movement went waaaaay too far. These women want to have careers, equal pay, all that good ****. And there's nothing wrong with that. But they still want the chivalry bull**** to go along with it inside of interpersonal sexual relationships. You expect to be treated like a queen and for men to buy you ****...make your Valentine's Day "special"...hold the door open...blah, blah, blah. NO! You don't get to have your cake and eat it, too. And an entire generation of young men have reached a point of disillusionment. What's the point of a serious relationship? Men get NOTHING out of it with the typical, American Gen Y woman. Unless they are old. Then it makes sense. Because they are desperate for a "real man" and way hotter than the 35-45 year olds they are usually stuck with.

This also show the hypocrisy of American society. It's fine for women to redefine what it means to be a woman. But if a man does it, it's wrong. Men aren't allowed to redefine what it means to be a man. Men (heterosexuals, anyway) aren't allowed to weak pink, listen to Lady Gaga, or whatever. They have to be what they are told to be. Well, what if this generation of men want to do what THEY want to do? Women can redefine their gender roles but men can't? Ridiculous.

So, to the women of Gen Y. It's not us, its you. Most of you typically just suck. You aren't worth it.

I was lucky enough that I got one that is rational. For example, she thinks Valentine's Day is stupid and doesn't want children. If I bought her something for Valentine's Day she'd probably get pissed off at me for being a giant, whipped ***** AND for perpetuating an invented holiday. I'm the luckiest dude on the planet. Hell, she loves WVU athletics, too. She rode on a ****ty NJ Transit train to NYC (aka, the most overrated city on the planet) yesterday to watch my team lose. And she was just as pissed off as I was. I pity the rest of you saps. Going out on Valentine's Day. Buying a $50,000 wedding (I went to a courthouse). Most women treat their men like wage slaves. It's just the truth.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

I read that article in Philly Mag. It was ****ing stupid.

There isn't a problem with young men. The problem is that there are idiot women that don't realize that video games, porn, and hanging out with friends is a better option than getting married and having a serious relationship. "Relationships" are always tilted towards having more benefits for women. It's ingrained into American thought. Marriage itself is just a 50% chance of losing more than 50% of what you've earned as well as an almost guaranteed loss of custody of your children with the requirement of paying child support to a woman that now hates you...and she doesn't even have to keep records on what the child support went to. So your kids are now being raised by some deadbeat your wife ran off with and you are paying them hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars a month. But, hey, you get to see them every other weekend.

Then you have the fact that the feminist movement went waaaaay too far. These women want to have careers, equal pay, all that good ****. And there's nothing wrong with that. But they still want the chivalry bull**** to go along with it inside of interpersonal sexual relationships. You expect to be treated like a queen and for men to buy you ****...make your Valentine's Day "special"...hold the door open...blah, blah, blah. NO! You don't get to have your cake and eat it, too. And an entire generation of young men have reached a point of disillusionment. What's the point of a serious relationship? Men get NOTHING out of it with the typical, American Gen Y woman. Unless they are old. Then it makes sense. Because they are desperate for a "real man" and way hotter than the 35-45 year olds they are usually stuck with.

This also show the hypocrisy of American society. It's fine for women to redefine what it means to be a woman. But if a man does it, it's wrong. Men aren't allowed to redefine what it means to be a man. Men (heterosexuals, anyway) aren't allowed to weak pink, listen to Lady Gaga, or whatever. They have to be what they are told to be. Well, what if this generation of men want to do what THEY want to do? Women can redefine their gender roles but men can't? Ridiculous.

So, to the women of Gen Y. It's not us, its you. Most of you typically just suck. You aren't worth it.

I was lucky enough that I got one that is rational. For example, she thinks Valentine's Day is stupid and doesn't want children. If I bought her something for Valentine's Day she'd probably get pissed off at me for being a giant, whipped ***** AND for perpetuating an invented holiday. I'm the luckiest dude on the planet. Hell, she loves WVU athletics, too. She rode on a ****ty NJ Transit train to NYC (aka, the most overrated city on the planet) yesterday to watch my team lose. And she was just as pissed off as I was. I pity the rest of you saps. Going out on Valentine's Day. Buying a $50,000 wedding (I went to a courthouse). Most women treat their men like wage slaves. It's just the truth.

Originally Posted by TemSirolimus (Post 12233573)

Strangely enough, women know my stance, yet still pursue me. I don't mind cohabitating tho, just as long as I can walk away on a moments notice if need arise.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

I read that article in Philly Mag. It was ****ing stupid.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

There isn't a problem with young men. The problem is that there are idiot women that don't realize that video games, porn, and hanging out with friends is a better option than getting married and having a serious relationship.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

"Relationships" are always tilted towards having more benefits for women. It's ingrained into American thought. Marriage itself is just a 50% chance of losing more than 50% of what you've earned as well as an almost guaranteed loss of custody of your children with the requirement of paying child support to a woman that now hates you...and she doesn't even have to keep records on what the child support went to. So your kids are now being raised by some deadbeat your wife ran off with and you are paying them hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars a month. But, hey, you get to see them every other weekend.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

Then you have the fact that the feminist movement went waaaaay too far. These women want to have careers, equal pay, all that good ****. And there's nothing wrong with that. But they still want the chivalry bull**** to go along with it inside of interpersonal sexual relationships. You expect to be treated like a queen and for men to buy you ****...make your Valentine's Day "special"...hold the door open...blah, blah, blah. NO! You don't get to have your cake and eat it, too. And an entire generation of young men have reached a point of disillusionment. What's the point of a serious relationship? Men get NOTHING out of it with the typical, American Gen Y woman. Unless they are old. Then it makes sense. Because they are desperate for a "real man" and way hotter than the 35-45 year olds they are usually stuck with.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

This also show the hypocrisy of American society. It's fine for women to redefine what it means to be a woman. But if a man does it, it's wrong. Men aren't allowed to redefine what it means to be a man. Men (heterosexuals, anyway) aren't allowed to weak pink, listen to Lady Gaga, or whatever. They have to be what they are told to be. Well, what if this generation of men want to do what THEY want to do? Women can redefine their gender roles but men can't? Ridiculous.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

So, to the women of Gen Y. It's not us, its you. Most of you typically just suck. You aren't worth it.

Originally Posted by WVUPharm2007 (Post 12232104)

I was lucky enough that I got one that is rational. For example, she thinks Valentine's Day is stupid and doesn't want children. If I bought her something for Valentine's Day she'd probably get pissed off at me for being a giant, whipped ***** AND for perpetuating an invented holiday. I'm the luckiest dude on the planet. Hell, she loves WVU athletics, too. She rode on a ****ty NJ Transit train to NYC (aka, the most overrated city on the planet) yesterday to watch my team lose. And she was just as pissed off as I was. I pity the rest of you saps. Going out on Valentine's Day. Buying a $50,000 wedding (I went to a courthouse). Most women treat their men like wage slaves. It's just the truth.

Originally Posted by Ackj (Post 12231033)

"Sugar daddy" would be the only thing that makes sense to me. I don't have a clue how you could have a natural attraction to someone double your age. The times you see this happen, it is either an old person with $$$$, some kind of control/broken home/daddy issue thing, or celebrities. None of those are a foundation for a positive or healthy relationship.

More power to the 40 year old, sure. But what the heck 21 year old? Can't find anybody your own age? Maybe they're trying to use this to leverage an advantage in the pharmacy? Who knows.

Originally Posted by rxlea (Post 12230228)

I saw an episode of Taboo where the wife was three decades older than the husband. his wife was three years older than his mom. They've been happily married for 11 years.

SHC, you honestly believe it's the money???? c 'mon...

And that guy seems like a creeper asking you to live with him and texting you all the time in addition to talking to you about his sex life..

Originally Posted by SHC1984 (Post 12235197)

Maybe he is just a friendly guy?

Originally Posted by SHC1984 (Post 12235197)

My preceptor is overly friendly....we were kinda friends before I decided to do 2 rotations with him....

He also ask me go to dancing with him when I move down there...

Maybe he is just a friendly guy?

Originally Posted by confettiflyer (Post 12235713)

:eyebrow: indeed

i know what SHC looks like so i'm not surprised she's getting this attention, and this is definitely a creeper moment & he's not just a "friendly guy." haha

Originally Posted by PharmDstudent (Post 12235739)

Why doesn't she just move in with him? Oh wait. He already offered her that. :laugh:

Originally Posted by confettiflyer (Post 12235713)

i know what SHC looks like

Originally Posted by SHC1984 (Post 12236549)

LOL...I won't move in with him. Although it's always nice to get free rent. I haven't pay rent in a long time since I live with my relatives here in Atlanta.

Haha...I already told him I would only date people my own age. He then give tons of reasons why women should date older men, but I say Nah, I prefer wild party boys in their twenties! lol... so he knows I am just a friend and nothing else.

Now, he just text me on occasions to talk about life. He is trying his best to find a girlfriend/wife. He is 45 yo.

His wife of 20 years cheated on him and left him. He then dated a 26 yo bipolar chick...but she ended up dying. Then he told me he try dating other girls but none of them work out. His sex with the bipolar chick was the best! lol...etc.

So now he is on eharmony and match.com looking for women, but has no luck.

He LOVES to go dancing but can't ever find anyone to go with and he hates going alone. He also hates going to bed alone at night. haha...

He is just lonely....I hope he does find a girlfriend soon. I never met anyone that tried harder.

Originally Posted by TemSirolimus (Post 12230944)

what are your thoughts about dating where you work?

Originally Posted by Old Timer (Post 12234828)

. It is very difficult for a divorced woman with children to get married again.

(cut) Not from what I've seen. Happens all the time.

(cut)


Guys have a hard time if the woman earns more than they do.

(cut)

Originally Posted by SHC1984 (Post 12236549)

LOL...I won't move in with him. Although it's always nice to get free rent. I haven't pay rent in a long time since I live with my relatives here in Atlanta.

Haha...I already told him I would only date people my own age. He then give tons of reasons why women should date older men, but I say Nah, I prefer wild party boys in their twenties! lol... so he knows I am just a friend and nothing else.

Now, he just text me on occasions to talk about life. He is trying his best to find a girlfriend/wife. He is 45 yo.

His wife of 20 years cheated on him and left him. He then dated a 26 yo bipolar chick...but she ended up dying. Then he told me he try dating other girls but none of them work out. His sex with the bipolar chick was the best! lol...etc.

So now he is on eharmony and match.com looking for women, but has no luck.

He LOVES to go dancing but can't ever find anyone to go with and he hates going alone. He also hates going to bed alone at night. haha...

He is just lonely....I hope he does find a girlfriend soon. I never met anyone that tried harder.

Originally Posted by SHC1984 (Post 12236565)

The only reason why I agree to move out of state and do my rotations on his site is b/c my ex lived in that state and I wanted to be close to him.

Now that our relationship ended I am stuck doing these rotations out of state. :(

It would have been much cheaper and easier for me to do all my rotations in Atlanta.