Originally Posted by Nadine02
You know OP, at first in this thread when I started to read it, I thought you were a reasonable fellow who honestly thinks that the reason who can't get a date is his height.
After a few posts I noticed that your height is not the reason but the fact that you are so CONDESCENDING towards women!
The things you say about them (or even think about them), women can smell that from a mile off!
You said and I quote: "They are gold diggers, only looking for money".
If that is your idea of women, you will only attract women who will only be interested in that.
It's either that or you're aiming wayyyy out of your league...
Now, something about me, female (29 years old atm), and I'm telling you I never had a date until I was 27. Guess who my first date was? A guy who used to be at the same high school as I was and that I hadn't spoken to for about 10 years!
I was a virgin up until I got into a relationship with him.
For the record, I am 5"5 and he is about 6"4. And...I couldn't care less about how tall he was. Also, he isn't "hot-as-hell" either, and I will tell you the reason I fell for him: His character. He is a nice, gentle bloke. Caring and sweet.
Oh and the reason why I broke up with him? When I got really ill (as in staying in the ICU, ill), he couldn't handle it. What I needed at that moment was a bloke that would be there for me, not someone who was getting angry at me for getting ill in the first place (believe me, I could not do anything about that). But that's beside the point.
What I'm indeed looking for in a guy is a nice character, someone who I feel comfortable spending time with, someone who is not condescending, oh and someone who doesn't lie. I HATE lying people!
I am confident that I will find someone else in the future. But for now I'm not looking and am way to busy enjoying my own life.
My advice to the OP; get some more respect for women and don't think that we are all the same. We are all different kinds, just like you guys are. Some might be "shallow" but there will be plenty of girls that are not.
Don't go for a 10/10 in the hotness scale if you are only a 5/10 (just an example, I can't "rate" you, I'm sure you can) but instead pick someone who is a 4/10 or even a 7/10. Get what I mean?
Wtf? this is exactly what has op in the position he's in in the first place. By your own admission you chose to date a scumbag who blamed you and fought with you when you got sick, so caring and sweet, and you just had to throw in the fact that he is 6'4" on top of it huh? Prime example of a woman saying one thing and doing another (I only care about personality not looks/ my only boyfriend has been a 6'4" scumbag who is not "hot as hell" implying you still think hes hot). And then you add on "but now I'm not looking for any and am way too busy enjoying my own life". Translation : "If a nice guy approaches me I will reject them like a cold hearted b. Unless they are hot, then I will jump their bones."
And you're seriously gonna finish up with calling him a 5/10 and telling him to date a 4? A FOUR? Dude is bout to be a doctor in a year or so and your telling him to date 4's (when I imagine a 4 I think of like a grotesque lunch lady or morbidly obese walmart shopper or something)? And then have the nerve to call him condescending?