Like many of you, I am a product of the unfair school of thought regarding calling in sick. I'm going to give my opinion, and I understand if it makes you mad......sorry.
1. I can't help but assume that most of the posters saying it's perfectly ok to call in sick are women. Am I wrong? I think it's because I 1) think it's weak to call in sick, and 2) think women are weaker than men. Hopefully I'm wrong......
....["blah, blah-dy blah, and further blah-ness."]
....6. So, while there are many legitimate reasons to stay home, MOST reasons people stay home are not legitimate. In the end, laziness and weakness seem to be the main reasons people "call in sick."
......in my experience.
I am proud to possess my most handsome set of testicles and am thus neither a feminist or female, but I think such assumptions about women are utterly apalling. As a matter of fact, some of the female medical students I have worked with actually try HARDER than my male counterparts specifically BECAUSE such assumptions about women are made from people that should know better: future physicians.
....[...]...."in my experience," you stated.
What experience? Were you a woman before you got the operation and now are in a better position to know what it would be like more so than what could otherwise be considered a superficial bias? I am ashamed for being a member of the same profession where there are actually people still like this.
Trust me, I have not championed the idea of equality for women in society or medicine, for that matter, simply because it might help me "score with the ladies" in college or medical school. It probably would have been easier to get laid with women who adhered to a school-of-thought that was the COMPLETE opposite.
Nonetheless, the need to abolish hurtful stereotypes is what I believe; one cannot rationally adhere to such a principle without making it universal for the poor, women, various ethnicities, races, or socio-economic classes--i.e. historical underdogs comprising this wonderful country. Such fervor is an evolutionary permutation of what I have had to fight all my life as a person of mixed race being forced to correct the habitual non-sense of the ubiquitous swarm of ignorant folk all around me that have been tragically denied the insight of a world view based upon having actually lived on different parts of the planet.
No, your Carnival Cruise to Jamaica does not count.
Such tomfoolery in bias may indeed not be of their own fault and merely a direct result of sole reliance upon a xenophobic vacuum of what they were taught to think or feel by progenitors with inferiority complexes afraid of change--i.e., a cultural-and oftentime institutionalized-inbreeding of thought.
*Shakes his head:* A pity, it is.
Maybe we should call this thread the "Calling out those who try to call out those who try to call IN sick."
Sheesh.