i especially make it a point to NEVER let any skin show...anywhere!
maybe that is being paranoid, but i make sure my button down shirts are buttoned all the way to the top. i might let the first button be undone. many of the shirts you find right now at Express and such are extremely low cut. you might want to pin them shut at the top. i don't really find them professional looking even thought they are button-downs.
like i said, pants are worn always....and never, ever ,ever do i wear high heels.. and lord knows i need 'em. (hence the screen name).
the thing with heels is this: they throw your body into a posture that is sexually alluring to men...think about it...what happens to your back when you wear heels? it arches- which makes your butt and boobs stick out....NOT COOL.
just a few tips if anyone is interested. body language speaks volumes to the opposite sex. why accentuate your sexuality if in fact you really do despise unwanted come ons?