|
|||||||
| Psychology [Psy.D. / Ph.D.] For discussion of PsyD or PhD issues. | RSS: |
![]() |
|
|
Thread Tools | Display Modes |
|
|
#1 |
|
Graduate Student
|
SDN Members don't see this ad. (About Ads)
I was accepted to my program to work under one of the best researchers and professors in the department. And today he meets with me to tell me that last minute he applied for a new position at a different university and plans to accept the resulting offer. I haven't even begun the program yet. He seems very willing to support me and kept saying he wants to do whatever he can to help me be successful but I'm just at a loss. Total shock and readjustment. Unfortunately, he still has yet to find out all the detail or even make an official announcement to the department, so everything is still up in the air and out of my control until I have more information. Based on what I do know so far, it seems the best option for me would be to try to hook up with a new mentor in the department since my acceptance and funding remains stable and guaranteed for the duration of my time with the program. I think I may be able to join the lab of a recently hired professor as she doesn't have many students yet. I just pray that the fit will be there and I won't be miserable in this program now that my original mentor is leaving. Mostly I'm still grieving my original plans and bemoaning the unfairness of the situation. As you all know, you work so damn hard to get to this one place and it's just unfathomable to me that after everything something so devastating can happen. Life is ridiculous. Anyway, any input, recommendations, or condolence is most welcome. I'll be crying intermittently and trying to distract myself for the rest of the day.
__________________
A straight line is not the shortest distance between two points. Last edited by Tesseract18; 07-03-2012 at 01:23 PM. |
|
|
|
|
|
#2 |
|
Member
|
Sorry to hear about your predicament! Did you speak with your advisor about the possibility of taking you along for the ride?
|
|
|
|
|
|
#3 | |
|
Graduate Student
|
Quote:
His new program only accepts students with masters degrees. I don't have one. He begins the new job in August and I've already signed a lease and set up roots in the current location. The funding at the new program would not be as good. Bleh. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
#4 | |
|
2K Member
|
Quote:
Now I am sure that they will do all that they can to accommodate you and find a good fit for you, but you have plenty of reason to be upset, particularly if you turned down other offers. I'll be curious as to how they will try to reconcile this with you. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
#5 |
|
Member
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 98
|
Is the advisor taking anyone with him? I am curious because I've seen this happen in my program and not one person got to go even if they had masters degrees.
|
|
|
|
|
|
#6 | |
|
Graduate Student
|
Quote:
Last edited by Tesseract18; 07-03-2012 at 01:22 PM. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
#7 |
|
Member
|
No wise words, but wanted to send condolences. I hope you can look back on this in a few years and be happy with where you are and where this unexpected turn in your path has taken you. Hang in there!!
|
|
|
|
|
|
#8 |
|
Member
Join Date: Jan 2011
Posts: 98
|
Take it as an opportunity. Everything happens for a reason. Things will work out.
|
|
|
|
|
|
#9 |
|
Senior Member
|
HUGS FOR YOU!
I will keep my fingers crossed that the other potential advisor will take you under his/her wing. Your advisor shouldn't have taken a student if they knew this was a possibility!! |
|
|
|
|
|
#10 |
|
Neuropsych Ninja Faculty
|
At least your funding is staying put, many students who lose their advisor also risk losing their funding (fair or not). I would definitely lean hard on the advisor and the program director, as you were accepted by the advisor....but also by the program. You should do your part to try and find a match, but they really should share a large portion of the grunt work given how last minute this all occurred.
|
|
|
|
|
|
#11 |
|
Graduate Student
|
Thank you, everyone. I know I'm fortunate in many ways even though the situation pretty much sucks. I'll be sure to post an update once I know more from my advisor and the department but I'm anticipating that they'll do right by me. Fingers crossed. Love the support SDN provides!
|
|
|
|
|
|
#12 |
|
Senior Member
Join Date: Apr 2012
Posts: 257
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
#13 |
|
Member
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
#14 | |
|
Ed Psych PhD student
|
Quote:
![]() OP, I'm really sorry to hear of your situation! Hopefully, the new professor will be a good fit both research and personality wise. Did your would-have-been advisor have any collaborators at the university (within or outside the department) who do similar research and with whom he could put you in contact? That might be a way to continue your hoped-for research line despite this sucky upset.
__________________
"The next question in life, no matter what happened, is 'What are you going to do now?'"--Barbara Hall |
|
|
|
|
|
|
#15 | ||
|
Neuropsych Ninja Faculty
|
Quote:
Quote:
|
||
|
|
|
|
|
#16 |
|
New Member
|
As someone who has just recovered (yes, recovered) from your experience, I can certainly understand how confusing and strange this must feel. At the very least, be thankful that it happened now, as opposed to a year or two into your program. I felt very close with my advisor of 2 years and the transition has not been easy. Granted, I had the option to go but (due to a variety of barriers you are likely familiar with) did not. Even though staying was my choice, it absolutely feels like abandonment. You'll be fine though. You're in a program and the application process was harder than usual last year; just be thankful you have guaranteed funding!!! Find another advisor and stick with them. From my experience, when advisors leave, new advisors and other faculty are very understanding that the student was accepted under different circumstances. You shouldn't feel forced to "switch" your research goals to fit this new professor. Just try to keep going as if your old one were still in the same city :-)
|
|
|
|
|
|
#17 | |
|
Graduate Student
|
Quote:
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
#18 |
|
1K Member
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 1,555
|
OP, it seems that the primary concern is funding and mentorship within the program to which you've committed, which is completely understandable.
But in terms of your future career (not sure if you've clarified if you're going the academic route or strictly clinical), has the advisor who is leaving indicated any openness to mentoring you despite the change in institutional affiliation? Perhaps things work differently in your field, but in mine it's not uncommon to have committee members from other institutions, or at the very least outside readers and collaborators. I wonder if there might still be some opportunity there, despite the recent change. |
|
|
|
|
|
#19 |
|
1K Member
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 1,898
|
We've unfortunately had a number of students in our programs "lose" their advisors. They pretty much did as was recommended by one of the previous posters. Kept on trucking with their same research ideas with a different advisor. I think it helped that many/most (?) of these folks already had well-developed ideas and discussed these with other potential advisors in the program, so for the most part it was a smooth transition.
I think the only whining I've heard came from one/two individuals who were forced to work with someone else (advisor did not necessarily leave the dept, but medical issues forced students to work closely with other faculty) who may have changed the way they felt things should have gone with their projects, manuscripts, etc. These faculty had really different styles, so I can understand the frustration involved. But, for the most part, faculty have been really supportive of all students in these transitions.
__________________
My doctor says that I have a malformed public-duty gland and a natural deficiency in moral fiber, and that I am therefore excused from saving Universes. |
|
|
|
|
|
#20 | |
|
Graduate Student
|
Quote:
I am interested in a more academic route (which is one of the reasons why this situation sucks, he's well known and has many connections in the field) and I'm worried that my new mentoring situation may not end up being as ideal for that direction. In terms of research fit with mentors (old and new), I had a very firm background and interest in my original advisor's particular area, but I hadn't specifically begun planning projects with him yet. I'm assuming it will be a good thing that I hadn't had my heart set on one particular research idea since (in theory) I may be more able to adopt a new advisor's area and try to combine that with the area I originally planned to work in. Eh, I don't know how it's going to work. I just wish I had more information and was able to begin reaching out to the department to resolve this issue. Alas, I must wait for my advisor to get his ducks in a row.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
#21 |
|
1K Member
Join Date: Oct 2010
Posts: 1,555
|
Good luck. I really feel for you. I've had some of these issues (changing advisors; research area shifting by necessity, not inclination) and am sending good vibes your way.
|
|
|
|
![]() |
| Bookmarks |
«
Previous Thread
|
Next Thread
»
| Thread Tools | |
| Display Modes | |
|
|
All times are GMT -7. The time now is 06:58 PM.











Linear Mode

