As I said earlier, as w/marriages that wait too long to get help, this appears to be the situation here. I agree w/ candbgirl. I would not have let it get so far that I felt forced into a corner and just went along with the school
if I knew darn well I was innocent. An attorney can advise you on the outside and help you go through the school’s due process—if indeed theirs is truly fair and thorough. Certainly the school has its board of attorneys for advisement. Like HR, they are there to serve the school first and foremost.
Also, public schools have to follow Constitutional guidelines. I don't know how hard and the manner in which OP fought this. But w/o the right support and resources, I can also understand how OP felt that OP had to do what s/he had to do. (See below.)
[Procedural Protections in Disciplinary Cases
University officials often say that since college disciplinary proceedings are “educational” rather than punitive, students in such proceedings are not entitled to procedural protections.
The law, however, is clear that protections of due process are in fact required for disciplinary hearings at public universities.
This is the case because, as noted above,
people are entitled to due process rights whenever they have what are known as “liberty” or “property” interests at stake. Both interests are most certainly at stake in university disciplinary hearings.]
https://www.thefire.org/fire-guides...fair-procedure-on-campus-full-text/#Contents3
My issue is with administrative systems that pretty much do whatever the hell they want b/c THEY CAN and that use the intimidation factor. A thousand percent of the time, they may get away w it; but eventually someone says, "No. Enough." Indeed students should read the student handbooks. Many of us would say, "I am not a cheater, so I can skip over their procedures and processes in this regard. " Most people don’t go in thinking they may be misunderstood or get screwed over for one reason or another. They don’t think they might ever be falsely accused of something. Just like people don’t think they will ever have to deal w/ accidents or violent acts against them.
Yes. Indeed, her/his only option
at this time may be to "stick with her/ his story" as you say. But making a charge against someone's honor is no longer serious business, and I definitely feel like that is a serious matter.
I get it. W/o balanced guidance, s/he took the lesser plea, so to speak, and now he/she is probably stuck with it. I suppose s/he would have a hard time getting a lawyer to file suit claiming that s/he was forced or put under duress to follow the plan; but who knows? Maybe there is a discriminatory component here?
There is a reason why organizations that focus on educational rights exist.
And yes. I know that cheating has been growing on college campuses, and it is a serious problem. This doesn't excuse neglecting the need to ensure that students' rights and due process is followed.
The bigger issue to me here is can administrations and students truly see both sides both individually and globally?