OP, Infeel very sorry for you because you raised a topic that makes it extremely hard to believe, but the reason why it is hard to believe is because all of us here have to go through all the difficulties, we have to expose ourselves to diverse ECs and importantly clinical work, and shadowing to truly confirm our passion for learning medicine to help people beside academics. By doing this, we are trying to become well-rounded applicants to show adcom that we are not the ones who only study and that we have confirmed our passion for learning medicine and compassion for others through our ECs and clinical work. We all know how hard it is to get in medical school, and getting in has made us sacrifice a lot. Your topic is as if you rubbed salt on the cuts on our skin, the cuts that we have to forget ourselves to serve community, to serve people. Your partner only studies, but EC is too weak... If you were part of an adcom, would you say this guy is a well-rounded applicant? He has passion to learn medicine to help people? And give him an opportunity? Whereas there are many other applicants who have similar stats as your partner, but they have strong ECs, clinical work, and the true will to learn medicine, to protect humankind from diseases... Which applicant will you pick?
I write this to hope that YOU UNDERSTAND US.... And that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. I dont care if he got accepted or not, but if he has the desire to serve people, please tell your partner get his ass off the study room and go outside to do clinical work, to interact with patients, to communicate with them, and to listen to what the patients really want... He can never learn those things in school, and by doing that, he will realize if medicine is the right choice for him. Would any patients want to see him if he does not have the strong will to see them? You get the answer...
If you truly understand what I say, please take my advice seriously and pass my message on to him. We all want you guys the best and become good doctors.
I hope my post would end the debate because all of us know getting in medical school is pride and sacrifice, there is no need to talk more about it, and I have just spoken up for all of you !