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Is my daughter, a modest kid by nature, deluding herself? She got a 36 on the MCATs (and is very happy and relieved; she had already started studying to retake MCAT, fearing the worst, before she got back her MCAT scores), has a 3.54 basic science GPA (this is what is making her feel as if she has zero-to-no chance of going to medical school), and an overall GPA of 3.78. She attends one of the top liberal arts colleges in the country, KNOWN for its grade deflation. She was elected to Phi Beta Kappa, as a junior (did not tell us this; we got notification by snail mail, a few months ago), is an EMT and on the EMT board, on multiple athletic teams, serves on Hillel and Chabad boards, and has been fundraising for, translating on, and scrubbing in on the same charitable, medical-surgical (International) mission for 6 consecutive years. Her recs were stellar (the pre-med coordinator at her college read her some excerpts when they met to discuss her application), and she is a really gracious and ethical kid. Everyone loves her. She compiled a list of medical schools, which are, really, without meaning to sound snobby, the lowest tier. She says that with her basic sciences GPA, she will not be granted an interview at any top schools. I should add that she is not first author on any research papers.
We are happy to pay for as many applications as she wants. She says "fine," but says that it is a joke for her to be applying to UCSF-calibre schools. The irony is that the 4 "kids" we know who have gotten into UCSF did not have, even remotely, the overall GPA or MCAT that she has. Their basic science ranged from 3.6 to 3.7.
Are my husband and I being destructive by urging her to apply to UC medical schools, Penn, Tufts, Duke, Northwestern, etc., tier schools as well as the "safeties."
Thank you for your compassionate and informed response. I should mention, too, that if she got to the intersection of interviewing, she would be very well-received. She's just really gracious and super smart and very understated about it all.
Lastly, we could utilize a connection at UCLA and Northwestern, and she is adamantly opposed--says that worse than not getting in would be to get in via a connection, that she would be haunted by that for forever and always feel like a fraud.
I hear mixed reviews of the importance of the essays, but her essays were so heartfelt and articulate and hers!
So, a couple things- the list of schools you provided are kind of all over the map as far as "tier." Using USNews (the default rankings), UCSF is #3 and Tufts is #49. It sounds like your daughter could definitely see some love from schools in the Tufts range and above (the highest schools tend to like some research and/or unique experiences to go along with stellar stats). Motherly love can sometimes feel like motherly pressure, and it sounds like she's not in a terribly receptive mood right now.
She currently has 6 EMT, squad friends at tufts, wash u, ucla, penn, and I forgot the other two, med schools. None did research.
Our only pressure is our suggestion that she let schools eliminate her, not the other way around. Heck, we have encouraged her NOT to go to medical school, but she is impassioned and committed.
Thank you for your kind words.It sounds like she will be successful regardless of where she goes to medical school.
Lastly, we could utilize a connection at UCLA and Northwestern, and she is adamantly opposed--says that worse than not getting in would be to get in via a connection, that she would be haunted by that for forever and always feel like a fraud.
Thank you for being so encouraging and helpful. MSAR?You should purchase a copy of the online MSAR and refer to the sGPA 10th percentile for each school. As long as your daughter is above that 10th percentile, she stands a shot, particularly in combination with her stellar cGPA and MCAT scores. For example, Northwestern's 10th percentile is 3.52, leaving room for someone like your daughter to still have a shot.
https://www.aamc.org/students/applying/requirements/msar/Thank you for being so encouraging and helpful. MSAR?
Yes, I go to a deflated school and it eats your soul so I understand her feelings. I think top schools are really looking for people who dedicated a lot of time to research.
If your daughter doesn't have research, she won't get in. Sorry