SDN Members don't see this ad. (About Ads) So I am a 24 year old second year med student and I have been going though a lot of worry about my future. The thing is though it's not about classes or which residencies I want to go to, it is more about family. After making my rotations for 3rd and 4th year I almost got depressed about it. I like school and still dream to be a physician. The problem is its not worth it without a family. I am worried I will never actually be able to get into a solid relationship and get married and have kids. I am not a type of guy that can just go out and pick up a girl which means I am an average looking guy a little on the short side (5 foot 8) and usually takes me a lot of work to get a girl interested.. Has anyone felt like this? Is it just something I am going through or are they completely valid concerns?