I've been trying to find some threads with tips on how to go about introducing this idea (the whole wanting to go to med school and be a doctor thing) to my family, because I'm pretty terrified about how they're going to react.
I'm finding tons of threads from pre-med students who DON'T want to go into medicine and their parents want them to, but nothing about announcing this pretty crazy/ambitious dream to friends and family. I'm thinking in the non-trad community there have got to be some other people who can relate to my fear.
Luckily my boyfriend has been really supportive and a great thought partner as I weigh pros/cons. I'm not living with my parents so it wasn't too difficult to keep things to myself while I figured out what I wanted to do. Now that I'm going to be a full time student though, I feel like I need to be honest with them.
I know the reaction is going to be along the lines of "What?? Why?? Your undergrad degree is perfectly fine, you can get a different job." They've seen me consider a variety of careers and I know this is going to be seen as just that... but only worse, because let's be honest, we're all a little crazy for wanting to do this. I've put a lot of time into shadowing and reading, and am going to do whatever it takes to follow through on this.
Obviously in time my family will see this, but how did you convince people you weren't crazy? I'd really like for them to be excited for me, because I've finally discovered what I am passionate about! Instead, I think they will be concerned.
I'm finding tons of threads from pre-med students who DON'T want to go into medicine and their parents want them to, but nothing about announcing this pretty crazy/ambitious dream to friends and family. I'm thinking in the non-trad community there have got to be some other people who can relate to my fear.
Luckily my boyfriend has been really supportive and a great thought partner as I weigh pros/cons. I'm not living with my parents so it wasn't too difficult to keep things to myself while I figured out what I wanted to do. Now that I'm going to be a full time student though, I feel like I need to be honest with them.
I know the reaction is going to be along the lines of "What?? Why?? Your undergrad degree is perfectly fine, you can get a different job." They've seen me consider a variety of careers and I know this is going to be seen as just that... but only worse, because let's be honest, we're all a little crazy for wanting to do this. I've put a lot of time into shadowing and reading, and am going to do whatever it takes to follow through on this.
Obviously in time my family will see this, but how did you convince people you weren't crazy? I'd really like for them to be excited for me, because I've finally discovered what I am passionate about! Instead, I think they will be concerned.