Where are you from aysecik ? I'm sorry if I wrote something in arabic in case you weren't
I live in OHIO, haven't been to any hospital yet but seen some mohajjabat almost exclusively in the mosque (arabs only).
I stand speechles to what happened to you in your interviews
that's inexplicable! All I can say is that you be yourself, dont be shy, mingle around, and try to win people over, namely the PC , PD and other interviewees. Try to have a smile on your face all the time, and volunteer to start a conversation with people around you. I found in a few occasions that that was all it took to break the ice and let them know that we're not some oppressed low self-esteemed women with no control over their lives!!!
I don't know about shaking hands, but the way I see it and that's just my personal opinion, it shouldn't be a problem to me shaking hands with male PHYSICIANS here, even though I try to avoid it whenever possible. Back home it's another story. Sorry again if my opinion does not sound right to anyone. I've been through it all and wouldn't shake hands for years, but societal norms and traditions and thresholds differ from one another. As long as I feel comfortable doing it, I will do it.
I hear there's a large muslim community in NY.. where are you in NY? i have an interview at Albany medical center for Path in January enshaAllaah.
I truly wish you the best, sister.
Alaa