My SO isn't "educated", but he's been extremely supportive of me moving away for school this fall. Then again, you guys are married, so it's a little different. Maybe he's not too keen on just rooting up everything and going somewhere else for four years (if you have to leave where you currently live for school). It's also a lot of debt to take on these days, and that'll be his debt too. Do y'all have kids? Those are things that make it more complicated than my situation.
If he's just being a jerk and can't support you because of his insecurities though, that's another thing.
Wait, so you havent even started school yet and already brushing off ops concerns ?
Aside from relatively straighforward first year, pharmacy school is hell ( at least my school is living hell) and she has all the reasons to be concerned for her marriage, especially if her husband lacks education. Not because that somehow makes him a lesser man, but because realistically he will have no comprehension or slightest idea what incredulous academic pressures are on her and how much time she will have to invest into studying.
I dont mean no disrespect, but I seen so many "supportive" sos and supportive fiances right amongst when we were starting school and what do I see 2 years
later ? People with broken engagements and broken relationships, depressed, fighting or going for weeks without seeing their sos. We are talking about people struggling in 5-7 year serious long term relationships, not 6 months quickie type. My own 6 year relationship suffered, we even had to start
sleeping in separate rooms because our schedules we so different: I would
leave home by 8 am and be back by 2 am often, he would work relatively normal 11 to 8 shift and we would go for a week in a row without so much as seeing each other.
As much as her so may internally want to be supportive, things like this or the lack of family time, change of pace, change of household routine ( my bf had
to start cooking, grocery shopping and doing my laundry for me during my
second year because I had so little time) ultimately do take a toll and she has all the reasons to be concerned.