hah, if you're asking a question like this then most likely you
will have a problem. if you're a
fob or
azn that's not willing to make an effort, then yes, you will struggle with attracting other patients.
you can overcome the color of your skin, but you need to not only be fluent in english but
culturally fluent as well. can you talk sports, or pop culture, or be comfortable around different people?
i'm a korean-american, but i can be 100% comfortable around white, black or asian people, as long as they give me a chance. i've had the fortunate opportunity to interact with all three different groups, and i know we share a lot more in common than differences.
most importantly you have to remember it's not what makes you comfortable that matters, it's what makes the other person that you're trying to make a connection with comfortable. if you make the effort, they'll do the same.
finally i'm just tired of this whole "group identity politics" thing. it leads to the lessening of the individual