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Hi All,
My fiance started working at his dream job in gov't in 2013 (can't find the line of work outside the region). My plan was to get into the only linkage program near him because my credentials were modest, but I didn't get in. Instead I got into a linkage program in a NY school (5 hour drive from DC). So I did the linkage and now I'm an M1 at the same school.
The strain of the distance has been overbearing. My fiance tried to get accepted to law schools in NY and leave his job but no good law schools accepted him. He has a sizable credit card debt so he can't just leave and move in with me - has to keep making his income. And has gotten no job offers near me despite trying hard.
So I have found that as the M1 year has progressed, I have been doing mediocre in school because I can't handle the separation.
My parents are putting extreme pressures on me to stay in school too, but sometimes I just want to leave because I can't focus on my studies at all. However, I don't have a back up plan outside of medicine. Just a useless master's degree that would likely land me a research bench job.
I used to love medicine, but not when it came down to choosing between my partner of 6 years and a career.
Has anyone had a similar situation? Or have advice for me?
My fiance started working at his dream job in gov't in 2013 (can't find the line of work outside the region). My plan was to get into the only linkage program near him because my credentials were modest, but I didn't get in. Instead I got into a linkage program in a NY school (5 hour drive from DC). So I did the linkage and now I'm an M1 at the same school.
The strain of the distance has been overbearing. My fiance tried to get accepted to law schools in NY and leave his job but no good law schools accepted him. He has a sizable credit card debt so he can't just leave and move in with me - has to keep making his income. And has gotten no job offers near me despite trying hard.
So I have found that as the M1 year has progressed, I have been doing mediocre in school because I can't handle the separation.
My parents are putting extreme pressures on me to stay in school too, but sometimes I just want to leave because I can't focus on my studies at all. However, I don't have a back up plan outside of medicine. Just a useless master's degree that would likely land me a research bench job.
I used to love medicine, but not when it came down to choosing between my partner of 6 years and a career.
Has anyone had a similar situation? Or have advice for me?
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