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Agreed. This simply comes down to standard of living. This is more important to some than to others. For some, doing the work is the standard, and for others it's living comfortably while doing meaningful work. I rarely see this acknowledged in the many discussions about this topic. The assumption that it is not rational ignores other values driving these decisions. Are there those who didn't think through the ramifications of taking on such debt, but there are those who have and are leading enjoyable lives.
Of course it does. However, I would also argue there is an element of maturity and critical thinking involved, and on this board, we often see posters who are simply obstinate about the fact that this would create very real hardships given their expectant lifestyle and/or expectations. The most recent poster is much more open, but still maintains an element of :I want to do this (crazy debt) and have this and that (vacations every summer). I maintain that I was raised in fairly well to do family specifically because my parent had a balanced view of what there financial reality based on there choices.
Will this make me a better psychologist. No, probably not. But I think ones ability to think rationally and unselfishly about financial matters speaks to maturity, intelligence, common sense, discipline, mental stability....grounding in reality.
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