(to the bolded part) Haha, no bias detected
For anyone reading this: don't forget that for cities "boring" often translates into "safe"; UES is one of the safest neighborhoods in NYC, which is something I can't say about Washington heights.
But I agree with you about being cautious in regards to being a member of the first class to go through the new curriculum, it's certainly not for everyone (though I'm choosing Cornell myself regardless).
I agree with you that one should visit the school more than once to have a fair assessment of its students. To be honest, Cornell didn't blow my mind during the interview day (though neither did I hate it), but I absolutely loved its second look, for the most part because of its students, both current and accepted. Cornell students are diverse in pretty much any way imaginable (not only in terms of race as many schools tend to understand diversity, though there is plenty of ethnic/racial diversity as well), talented, interesting, genuinely nice and real people. Or maybe I felt that *I* would fit in with Cornell really well because of some common interests, experiences etc. Maybe people who have different values/interests would not fit in with Cornell students as well, I don't know. I think it's one of the things that's about individual fit and can only be assessed by the person him/herself. The best is to revisit the schools and meet their students - OP, since you live in NJ, could you request a revisit with Cornell and/or Columbia?
I don't know if you'll have more opportunities to meet people at Columbia, but I don't see how you could possibly have any difficulty meeting people if you go to Cornell.
As for lectures, yes, it seems like students are highly encouraged to attend lectures at Cornell, though I don't know how many of them actually regularly attend lectures; current Cornell students should answer this.
The problem with this thread is that many of the replies are pure hearsay (case in point: the post I quoted above, no offense to its author; Cornell students are amazingly diverse as well, and this is a fact rather than an opinion). I understand the concerns about the new curriculum, lecture attendance etc., but I wouldn't put too much stock into other people's opinions of Cornell students (including mine
). OP, seriously, try revisiting the schools and meeting their students if you can.