SDN Members don't see this ad. About the ads. How long have you been with them? How stable is your relationship? It seems to me that many people in general don't realize what long term sacrifices significant others and the medical professional go through (relatives and family especially). So I'm curious how many out there have been there through the full gamut? How many are starting in this venture? I'm going on 7 years+ almost out of fellowship (2/3) and seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Starting at the End of 2nd year of school, our life has been chaos.