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I have some patients who don’t have enough symptoms to warrant an avoidant personality disorder diagnosis, but they are what we called on my psych rotation cacogens—basically people who are a tad on the misanthropic side.
As I’ve said before, I excel in treating a vibrant clientele, and I strongly believe different psychiatrists can better help different subgroups of our population. It’s hard for me to understand why cacogens would seek out a psychiatrist who practices dance therapy. Dance therapy inherently involves one of the most personal forms of social interaction. I would propose that I would likely have even more of these cacogen types or even outright avoidant PD clients if I didn’t offer dance therapy.
All of this came up when I noticed the Facebook page for my practice lost several likes. As I have a fairly small practice with a moderate number of likes, it was easy to see which of my patients had unliked my page.
Now, I would never bring this up during talk therapy except that I was concerned about how these clients were feeling toward therapy. To that end, I asked them why they had unliked my Facebook page.
There were three of these clients. All three claim that they deleted their Facebook profiles, and so they had not specifically unliked my page but had merely disappeared altogether from this social network. I don’t like the words “disappear” and “social” to appear in the same sentence when it comes to my clients.
Some of my instincts from rotation in Anguilla came back to me, and I sensed I was in the midst of cacogens. I am very concerned for these people who are snubbing social norms and disconnecting from the world we now live in. I’m also concerned for myself. These are not the types of patients I mean to attract nor are they the type that I know I am equipped to help.
A cacogen is probably better off with a psychoanalyst or someone geared for long-term, introspective therapy. Not that I think it would do them much good. But when people are not ready to open up to the world, open up to life, open up to the dance of all things, I really have nothing to offer them. One of the best treatments I have for my clients are my high standards. High standards—no matter the discipline—are inherently therapeutic. A person is healthy when he or she is working and demanding a lot from him or herself. I have no place for clients who are shutting down from the world and isolating themselves.
I’m just not sure how to confront these clients and tell them that if they’re not ready to help themselves, I cannot help them either. I know I’ll need to release them—they practically released themselves when they disappeared off of Facebook. I have found cacogens to be rather inscrutable and unpredictble, and as such I will have to approach this rather tactfully.
I think I’ll probably tell them that they’ve graduated to the level of The Final Dance (not really a thing in dance therapy) and that we’re to perform one last dance together because they’ve healed as much as they can in dance therapy. I’ll try to make it a positive for them. And finding someone to manage their meds will be no problem.
What about you all? How have you dealt with patients who were not the type of clientele that you are best able to help? Releases can be tricky—especially the release of cacogens.
As I’ve said before, I excel in treating a vibrant clientele, and I strongly believe different psychiatrists can better help different subgroups of our population. It’s hard for me to understand why cacogens would seek out a psychiatrist who practices dance therapy. Dance therapy inherently involves one of the most personal forms of social interaction. I would propose that I would likely have even more of these cacogen types or even outright avoidant PD clients if I didn’t offer dance therapy.
All of this came up when I noticed the Facebook page for my practice lost several likes. As I have a fairly small practice with a moderate number of likes, it was easy to see which of my patients had unliked my page.
Now, I would never bring this up during talk therapy except that I was concerned about how these clients were feeling toward therapy. To that end, I asked them why they had unliked my Facebook page.
There were three of these clients. All three claim that they deleted their Facebook profiles, and so they had not specifically unliked my page but had merely disappeared altogether from this social network. I don’t like the words “disappear” and “social” to appear in the same sentence when it comes to my clients.
Some of my instincts from rotation in Anguilla came back to me, and I sensed I was in the midst of cacogens. I am very concerned for these people who are snubbing social norms and disconnecting from the world we now live in. I’m also concerned for myself. These are not the types of patients I mean to attract nor are they the type that I know I am equipped to help.
A cacogen is probably better off with a psychoanalyst or someone geared for long-term, introspective therapy. Not that I think it would do them much good. But when people are not ready to open up to the world, open up to life, open up to the dance of all things, I really have nothing to offer them. One of the best treatments I have for my clients are my high standards. High standards—no matter the discipline—are inherently therapeutic. A person is healthy when he or she is working and demanding a lot from him or herself. I have no place for clients who are shutting down from the world and isolating themselves.
I’m just not sure how to confront these clients and tell them that if they’re not ready to help themselves, I cannot help them either. I know I’ll need to release them—they practically released themselves when they disappeared off of Facebook. I have found cacogens to be rather inscrutable and unpredictble, and as such I will have to approach this rather tactfully.
I think I’ll probably tell them that they’ve graduated to the level of The Final Dance (not really a thing in dance therapy) and that we’re to perform one last dance together because they’ve healed as much as they can in dance therapy. I’ll try to make it a positive for them. And finding someone to manage their meds will be no problem.
What about you all? How have you dealt with patients who were not the type of clientele that you are best able to help? Releases can be tricky—especially the release of cacogens.
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