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Hi everyone,
So my dad gave me an ultimatum last night and I'm in a bit of a crisis. Long story short, I want to do a 2-year masters in marriage and family therapy and then go to dental school. However, my father, who will be giving me an interest-free loan for my education, wants me to get my dental degree as soon as possible and doesn't want me to delay applying. i.e. he doesn't want me to do the masters. I can get into the reasons why he wants this but I don't think it's essential to the story. Just take it that my father wants me to apply now so I have to. So basically, the only way he'll be fine with me doing the masters is if I apply to dental school this upcoming cycle and if by some slim chance a dental school allows me to defer my acceptance for a year. If they don't allow me to defer my acceptance but still give me an acceptance, then I would take up dentistry and leave my masters program midway after a year. As for the masters, I interviewed and am waiting to hear back. I'd like to think the schools liked me and I'll get in, but we'll see how it turns out.
So here's what I guess I want some advice about:
Say I get into my Masters, I'll want to tell them that I'm applying for dental school this cycle and and if I get in and get a deferral, then I'll finish the masters in 2 years straight (ideal plan). Otherwise, I'll try my best to come back 4 years later after dental school to finish it up (not the ideal plan, and given I get accepted). Hopefully no one revokes any acceptances after hearing this..
As for dental schools, how do I explain this to them?! I (try my best to) value my parents wishes (even when I disagree) so I won't go against them with this. So my plan as of now is to tell dental schools, "Yeah so I'm in this 2-year masters program and want to finish it up before I start dental school, but if no one grants me a deferral then I'm just going to start dental school right away. Will you please be my knight in shining armor?"
Do I stand any chance with this? Am I shooting myself in the foot, or the femoral artery? I asked my cousin (an internal medicine resident who was on the admissions team of his med school) and he said that he hasn't heard of anything like this and can't say how it'd turn out. I would like to hope I'd be unique enough that they at least give me an acceptance and at best also give me a year deferral, but am I cutting my odds really short?
Assume I'm a B+/A- applicant as far as my stats and application go, assuming whatever that means to you lol.
So my dad gave me an ultimatum last night and I'm in a bit of a crisis. Long story short, I want to do a 2-year masters in marriage and family therapy and then go to dental school. However, my father, who will be giving me an interest-free loan for my education, wants me to get my dental degree as soon as possible and doesn't want me to delay applying. i.e. he doesn't want me to do the masters. I can get into the reasons why he wants this but I don't think it's essential to the story. Just take it that my father wants me to apply now so I have to. So basically, the only way he'll be fine with me doing the masters is if I apply to dental school this upcoming cycle and if by some slim chance a dental school allows me to defer my acceptance for a year. If they don't allow me to defer my acceptance but still give me an acceptance, then I would take up dentistry and leave my masters program midway after a year. As for the masters, I interviewed and am waiting to hear back. I'd like to think the schools liked me and I'll get in, but we'll see how it turns out.
So here's what I guess I want some advice about:
Say I get into my Masters, I'll want to tell them that I'm applying for dental school this cycle and and if I get in and get a deferral, then I'll finish the masters in 2 years straight (ideal plan). Otherwise, I'll try my best to come back 4 years later after dental school to finish it up (not the ideal plan, and given I get accepted). Hopefully no one revokes any acceptances after hearing this..
As for dental schools, how do I explain this to them?! I (try my best to) value my parents wishes (even when I disagree) so I won't go against them with this. So my plan as of now is to tell dental schools, "Yeah so I'm in this 2-year masters program and want to finish it up before I start dental school, but if no one grants me a deferral then I'm just going to start dental school right away. Will you please be my knight in shining armor?"
Do I stand any chance with this? Am I shooting myself in the foot, or the femoral artery? I asked my cousin (an internal medicine resident who was on the admissions team of his med school) and he said that he hasn't heard of anything like this and can't say how it'd turn out. I would like to hope I'd be unique enough that they at least give me an acceptance and at best also give me a year deferral, but am I cutting my odds really short?
Assume I'm a B+/A- applicant as far as my stats and application go, assuming whatever that means to you lol.