I reposted it myself with a Dr. Cox quote from Scrubs about going back to work after telling the family.
It made me think of the 2 times I can recall, out of 16 years in EMS that I had cried. My very 1st patient in clinicals had been an 40ish female that seized and coded. The physician pronounced, walked out of the room, up to the family and said: "we did everything we could, she's dead, have you considered harvesting her organs?" Family lost it, I ducked out and behind the unit and lost it myself.
Almost 10 years later, I delivered a 20 week preemie in the field. Managed to get mom and baby to the hospital alive. Only time I had ever seen that particular ED Physician angry or even raise his voice. (No ET tube or even laryngoscope blade small enough) I got in the back of the truck, killed the lights, called my wife and cried my eyes out for a good while.
Like everyone else, I had to learn how to square my shoulders, grab my post-crappy call Dr. Pepper and saddle back up for the next one.
I know it's going to get tougher soon, when I'm the one going out to tell the family what happened, or making the decision to stop. Hope I can keep some shred of humanity.
Thanks for listening.