Thanksgiving break of my first year my dad had told my cousin (without me knowing) that I could take a look at and probably fix one of his son's show pigs. Um, no, no I can't. 1. I don't know anything yet 2. That would be practicing without a license 3. Why did you tell him I could without asking me first?
This isn't directed at you specifically, Lissa, because you know that I think you rock 100% of the time. Just some thoughts I've had on the whole issue of the general population asking for our help and how I've slightly changed my attitude this year.
I've kinda re-adjusted my feelings about that stuff. It used to bug me and I'd retort with something like "I'm a first-year student. I don't even know what I don't know yet."
But the fact that so many people ask for my advice sorta suggested that I ought to quit viewing it as crazy talk and instead view it as normal behavior. It's not desirable behavior. And it's not productive behavior (since they would be getting answers from someone not really in a position to give great advice if we were to 'help' them). But it's normal, rational (from their perspective) behavior. So I treat it as such.
A friend called me last week Friday afternoon and opened the conversation with
"So, my dog just got hit by a car and I'm wondering if you could come look at him." Instead of going for the ranting "I'm just a first year student, are you crazy?" approach I guided the conversation this way:
"I really can't right now, and yes, I think you ought to take him to a vet."
"Well, he seems fine."
"My advice is to take him to a vet."
"Even though he's acting normally?"
"Yup. You were concerned enough to call me, which means he needs care that I can't provide. I'd be interested in hearing how Chase does, though - will you call me tomorrow and let me know what the vet said?"
There's no need (usually) to go into the why we can't provide it. From our perspective it's obvious: lack of knowledge, legal, ethical, etc. We all get that. But it's important to acknowledge that
they don't. So we have to talk to them at their level if we want a successful outcome from the conversation. If you go off on them about the stupidity of asking for our help, what do they learn? Vet people are grouchy, unapproachable, and not generally useful: not really what we want to teach them! I think it's key that we acknowledge that some/many/most in the general population don't recognize a difference between a vet student and a graduated, licensed, practicing vet. That doesn't mean we treat their animal - obviously - but it can inform how we respond.
I realize that some people would say it's our job to educate them about our status, and that I'm passing up that opportunity. I acknowledge that argument. It's got value. My experience has been it's less effective. And I've decided it's more important to encourage them to view people in vet medicine positively, and to maximize the chance that after talking to me they'll take their animal to a vet. Blowing off their question doesn't accomplish that.
Footnote: That dog ran out into the street and lunged into the passenger side door of a car doing 30-40 mph. Crumpled in the passenger door. Injuries to the dog: Minor soft tissue damage and the dog was 100% in two days. *Amazing*.