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So I have always been taught to shake a mans hand very, very firmly, two pumps and you are done. To shake a womans hand you simply let her take your hand and so you sort of gently grab just her fingers, and usually one pump.
So now how does this play in the real world. If you are on an interview for med school and your interviewer is a woman, would I shake it firm (because she is obviously in a higher position of authority) or do I shake her hand like I have been taught previously.
I don't want to come off like a jerk and break some poor womans hand, nor do I want to come off as unconfident (as I am a pretty confident dude). Some ladies I can accurately gauge whether they would expect a softer/firmer handshake. But every once in a while its like I go for the soft and then this little woman breaks my hand haha
No troll I promise... I haven't ever had a situation where I have had a woman interviewer for a job. I have only ever had men, just don't want to make a fool of myself.
So now how does this play in the real world. If you are on an interview for med school and your interviewer is a woman, would I shake it firm (because she is obviously in a higher position of authority) or do I shake her hand like I have been taught previously.
I don't want to come off like a jerk and break some poor womans hand, nor do I want to come off as unconfident (as I am a pretty confident dude). Some ladies I can accurately gauge whether they would expect a softer/firmer handshake. But every once in a while its like I go for the soft and then this little woman breaks my hand haha
No troll I promise... I haven't ever had a situation where I have had a woman interviewer for a job. I have only ever had men, just don't want to make a fool of myself.