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I've been a research assistant since March. The PI is very condescending and makes me miserable. She constantly lectures me about forgetting things that she showed me once, months ago. 5 minute lectures turn into 10 then 15 minute ones, with me standing there silently having to nod my head. I don't think it adds anything to the learning environment that the lab is supposed to be. She's been doing this for 30+ years, I'm sure its all super common sense and self-explanatory for her, but it isn't for me. I tutor in general chem and bio, i see students stuck on the simplest things so i'm patient with them because i can sympathize just from being in this lab. I feel like the professor wants me to grasp everything immediately, and I don't think any normal human can go at that pace. When I mess something up she berates me for not asking since I was unsure. When I ask a question she berates me for not reading through the 100 books she has on her shelf.
Like I said, I've been here for 8 months already. I've applied to medical school in August, I'm worried that I'll have to re-apply. I'm really trying to stick it out at this lab, but my esteem is taking such a beating from the PI that it ruins my day. I get that i'm supposed to feel some kind of pressure to improve, and yea I'm new so I should expect to mess up and get lectured, but this is seriously becoming unhealthy for me. If I left now, would it look bad? I was honestly hoping to stick it out with her till next March and request an LOR, since I may not get in this cycle, but that really isn't looking so doable at this point.
I know what it's like to struggle and challenge myself, but my stress and temper from this place is really reaching its boiling point. Is there a way to salvage the situation?
Is there a way out???
Like I said, I've been here for 8 months already. I've applied to medical school in August, I'm worried that I'll have to re-apply. I'm really trying to stick it out at this lab, but my esteem is taking such a beating from the PI that it ruins my day. I get that i'm supposed to feel some kind of pressure to improve, and yea I'm new so I should expect to mess up and get lectured, but this is seriously becoming unhealthy for me. If I left now, would it look bad? I was honestly hoping to stick it out with her till next March and request an LOR, since I may not get in this cycle, but that really isn't looking so doable at this point.
I know what it's like to struggle and challenge myself, but my stress and temper from this place is really reaching its boiling point. Is there a way to salvage the situation?
Is there a way out???
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