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I met this hot Asian colleague in my P1 year. At first, I never noticed her all that much even when we sat right across from each other because I was still adjusting to P1. Anyways, one time I went to my calculations class 5 minutes early, and I noticed she had her backpack on my desk. Her friend told her to take her backpack off my desk, to which I replied that it's fine. We started to talk, not just us two, but with the group around our area. At that time, I had the confidence to talk because it was a group conversations, and I was starting to get attracted to her because she fits the description (that some of you people accused me of being shallow and trollish ) Soon, we talked one on one and I really started to like her ALOT. Our classmates teased us that we argue like a married couple. Anyways, she kept on denying to our classmates that she likes me, and I kept it quiet. But nevetheless, during our fall finals, we studied together, but we ended up having fun instead.
At this time, I was madly in love, and at the end of our last exam, I told her that I liked her and would like to go out with her. Unfortunately, she said no, and said that I wasn't her type. Later on, I learned that she had a boyfriend, which pissed me off because she flirted with me, but never told me about him. Anyways, in our spring semester, I ignored her to move on, but she would talk to me and occasionally call my name when I'm talking to another female colleague.
I"m so confused about her, so during my fall P2 year, I told her again that I liked her, but she said no. She said that we can be friends. So here's my confusion:
1. Why would she flirt with me even though she had a boyfriend?
2. Why would give me a nickname even though she had a boyfriend?
3. Why could she not leave me alone simply because I don't want to have feelings for her?
4. Why would she only want to hang out when at the time she had a boyfriend?
5. Why would she touch my hands, but never hug me?
6. Why is she so critical of me, such as criticizing me about how I deal with tough situations?
7. Does she know that saying "we're friends" really hurts my feelings?
8. Most people told me that she's materialistic and that she used me because I am smart. Do you guys think she would do that?
Please help me answer these questions so that I can move on.
Thanks!
At this time, I was madly in love, and at the end of our last exam, I told her that I liked her and would like to go out with her. Unfortunately, she said no, and said that I wasn't her type. Later on, I learned that she had a boyfriend, which pissed me off because she flirted with me, but never told me about him. Anyways, in our spring semester, I ignored her to move on, but she would talk to me and occasionally call my name when I'm talking to another female colleague.
I"m so confused about her, so during my fall P2 year, I told her again that I liked her, but she said no. She said that we can be friends. So here's my confusion:
1. Why would she flirt with me even though she had a boyfriend?
2. Why would give me a nickname even though she had a boyfriend?
3. Why could she not leave me alone simply because I don't want to have feelings for her?
4. Why would she only want to hang out when at the time she had a boyfriend?
5. Why would she touch my hands, but never hug me?
6. Why is she so critical of me, such as criticizing me about how I deal with tough situations?
7. Does she know that saying "we're friends" really hurts my feelings?
8. Most people told me that she's materialistic and that she used me because I am smart. Do you guys think she would do that?
Please help me answer these questions so that I can move on.
Thanks!