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So my girlfriend and I are both starting professional school next year. I'll be going to Dental school in either Philadelphia or Maryland and she'll be attending Veterinary school in lower Virginia. Maximum we'll be around 7 hours apart and minimum we'll be around 4 to 4.5. Is 4 hours really considered long distance? I've read many threads condemning long distance relationships but we have a guaranteed end goal in about 4 years. Even if I choose to specialize she'll be able to follow me wherever so distance won't be an issue then. We've currently been dating for 8 months but we've been friends for awhile and I truly believe this relationship has marriage potential. Despite this I'm still worried about the relationship causing extra stress during school and it might not be worth it if there's a high potential for a break-up? I guess my main question is how have others done in terms of semi-long distance relationships? Do you think the amount of distance contributed to the relationship failure or success? And at what distance do you draw the line for being 'too far' to be able to make something work for 4 years.