A couple of things.
My dad is on the residency search committee for his division where he works (a well-known medical center). He said that they look at both the "tier" of medical school you went to (first tier, second, third--and his institution ranks them themselves, I don't think this is public info), grades, and board scores. While people here like to say that a US med school is a US med school, it's not. Now, my dad's residency program is one of the top in the country, but still everyone should know how to get a shot at it--most of their residents went to tier 1 med schools. When I was telling him about the post-bacs I am applying for we looked at the linkages available to me and his discouraged me from setting myself to get into anything less than a tier 1 school. I'm still not sure if I'll do a post-bac or not, I am thinking more and more about the Harvard Extension School and then my state university if I can get in. Sigh. But yeah go to the best school you can get into, it will pay off later.
Who says your dad's residency is one ot the "top in the country?" Who says that Harvard is better than School X? The best school and residency is the one that is best FOR YOU.
Harvard is NOT the place for me. I don't like Boston (or big cities in general, I have a family and don't like it when my 8 year old gets shot), and I would not have done well at the school, either. I hate research. The tuition is insane.
You couldn't pay me enough to pick Harvard over LECOM-B. No way, no how. Same goes for residency. While I want to do my residency at a "decent" place, it doesn't have to be at MGH or Hopkins. Again, I hate research and academic medicine in general. Give me a solid community program ANY TIME. I have zero desire to be an academic attending (although I'd be open to teaching a class or having students on rotation with me, if they wanted). I have zero desire to do research or work on grants (a special hell).
Basically, I'm saying that before you start spouting off about your nepotism and "Tier 1 Schools" you should stop and think, and realize that people come in all flavors and what's "Tier 1" for US News may not be Tier 1 for the rest of us. When I was applying to school, this was my rank list (I'm from Virginia)
1. UVA. I'm from Charlottesville, and UVA is a great school and it would have been nice to be near family. It's a small town. Tuition here would have been more expensive than any other school on the list (~$35k, I think, in state, ugh...thanks virginia...). Unfortunately, I'm a non-trad (31yo now) and thanks to some classes I took when I was 18 and dropped, but didn't withdraw from (dumb, I know, but I didn't know I wanted to do medicine, or anything else then...I wanted to play guitar...) I have zero chance of making into a school as competitive as this any time soon. I did seriously consider spending an extra 2 or 3 years getting my scores up to where they needed to be, but decided against it for various reasons. I'm already old, and needed to get started on med school if I wanted to finish before I die. Also, I have so many undergrad credits that my AMCAS GPA was NOT changing at the end. Each A brought it up by 0.004 points. At that rate (which declines further with each credit you take) my 3.35 overall GPA (3.8 science, I'm not a *****, thank you) was NOT coming up.
2. LECOM-B. Cheapest tuition. Which is ironic given that I don't live in Florida. The PBL program is amazing, especially for someone with a family to worry about. I am able to structure my time mostly as I see fit. Great location, great weather, great schools for my daughter, very safe neighborhood, little slice of suburban heaven, no crime to speak of (our Pumpkin got stolen once on Halloween, if that counts...lol). No research requirement. Community rotations, which I love due to: more one-on-one time with the attendings, more responsibility (no residents, 1st assist on surgery, etc), "real world" medicine, not acedemia).
3. EVMS. Great program, I think. Terrible Location. Norfolk is a crap-hole. Not a good place for a family. Traffic is not only bad, but dangerous. I like not risking my life to drive around town, thanks.
4. VCU. My undergrad. Not a fan. I hate the location (although Richmond is better than Norfolk), the parking, the traffic, the quality of the residents here seems questionable at times. I worked at another hospital in Richmond, and we heard too many horror stories about the quality of care at VCU to make me want to be a part of that system. Terrible ER wait times. We know someone whose husband died of a stroke after waiting in the ER for 16 hours to be seen, AND being vocal about the severity of his condition. Sent a 3 day old blue baby over there after being tubed and stabilized at my hospital. 2 days later, it was decided at VCU that the resident needed practice on pediatric untubations, so the baby was extubated. Due to swelling, etc they could not re-intubate him and he coded. Brought him back 6 times, but lord knows what kind of brain damage. Again, I do NOT want to be part of this system. No thanks. To me, LECOM-B is far better.
5. VCOM. Meh. Blacksburg is almost too small. Actually this was borderline with VCU. If it wasn't for the high tuition, it would have won.
I am very confident that I made the right decision for me and my family. So while you and your daddy figure out your life, please let the rest of us figure out ours without telling us that we need to go to a "Tier 1 School" to get a "Tier 1 Residency". I'm at MY Tier 1 school, Thank you very much.
I would also like to add that any residency that excludes good, well-qualified candidates based on WHERE they went to school, is not a "Top Residency" in my mind. In fact, that pretty much puts them on my black-list. They are passing up some stellar candidates to take some with a certain name on a diploma. To me, that's as stupid as extubating that baby for training purposes.