If JChait still looks at this thread, how did the financial aid process work out for you? Did you get enough to cover college, when did you find out how much you got, etc?
I was a little bit different than the normal applicant, but everyone fills out a FAFSA and you guys should submit it as soon as possible, and definitely before the priority deadline. The earlier you submit, the earlier you have your EFC and then you can guesstimate how much you will receive. Check each of your school's percentage of need met. Most schools are in the 90% area, and many are in the high 90s.
Need = All costs of college per year - EFC (estimated family contribution per year AKA what the gov't expects you to pay... Based on income and tax brackets)
For example, mine was the following:
Need = ~38k - (EFC was 42k)
Due to my EFC being higher than the estimated cost, I did not receive any financial aid, but like all students, I was offered a 5,000 dollar loan I could take out through the school. You can always take out external student loans. Personally, my family didn not want me to take out loans, but since I received enough scholarship money, my tuition + everything else is below 20k.
Even before your school gives you a package, you should be researching for scholarships at each school, at your high school and at external sources. Fastweb is a good website to look for scholarships for individual interests and career goals. Most schools take anywhere from 4 to 8 weeks for a financial package. Mine took a week, since my EFC was above the cost of enrollment.
Personally, I didn't bother will my high school scholarships. Most awards were just a few hundred bucks, and weren't worth the amount of time I was going to spend writing essays, when I could just apply to better programs. At my school, I received around 8,000 at admission, and then another 10 for a special leadership scholarship.
Hope I didn't ramble (I do that often)... Ask any more questions if you need, as I check this thread once a day or so.
Does anyone know if the essays are always the same for CommonApp essays?
Yes, they are always the same for the general essay. Not the same for supplements, though. Some schools keep the same questions, but most do not.