You claimed that, as a woman, you could understand OP and not Law2Doc. Not as a person who was victim of "constant, low-level pestering", but as a woman. That is literally what you said. And of course, the correlate is that Law2Doc cannot understand OP not because he isn't a victim of "constant, low-level pestering", but solely because he is a man.
It is factually evident that men are also victims of "constant, low-level pestering" (and that not every woman is), but it does not fit your narrative of the poor, oppressed lamb in a world of predators, so you choose to sweep it under the rug and deny the experience of every single male (perhaps Law2Doc among them) who has ever been harassed or abused.
I appreciate you changing the goalpost, though.