But since Law2Doc has gone on and on about how this isn't an employment relationship, it seems to me that the criticism that OP was simply "ageist" is misplaced. Sure, getting asked out isn't harassment, but when the ask or approach seems completely unwarranted by the situation, or it's objectively outrageous that the asker/approacher seems to think the askee/approached would be receptive, the problem arises. The reason it wouldn't be a problem if a cute guy closer to her age asked her out after a friendly afternoon of shadowing is that said cute guy might reasonably think she is interested! But when yes, a gross old man who probably hasn't established any sort of friend-like relationship with her approaches her, he has to know that the advance is unwanted, just as much as hair-smellers have to know that their sniffing is unwelcome. Then, women are socialized to act like jlin (jllin? can't remember) and downplay their objection so as to "let a guy down easy" or not be labeled a man-hating lesbian b!tch, and then pigs further say well, she wasn't clear and how was I to know and I thought she was just playing hard to get .... Get real. The doctor knows when it might be reasonable to ask a woman out or express his attraction/interest, and in a case like this one, he knows perfectly well she would never be interested and he's just hoping to get somewhere because she is vulnerable/feels obligated/etc.