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Still trying to weigh my options and figure out what to do about my previously alluded to financial situation. Applied to about 15 more jobs today and scheduled an appointment with the Director of Career Services at my school Friday.
As I mentioned in the past, my severely mentally disturbed sister's presence makes moving back in with my dad a really, really unappealing "option," if you can call it that. However, recent events have introduced the possibility that she might not be at the house by the time my lease is up here. It's all really up in the air, but she was temporarily removed from the house by the state recently. She has since been readmitted to the home while social services investigates, etc. etc. The point is that she might no longer live there sooner than I thought or, at the very least, will know that she can't continue her current behavior because she will be removed from the home if she does.
No one really knows what will happen with that situation, but IF moving back in with my dad does become an option again (and if I utilize that option), I'm not sure whether it would be a better idea to transfer over to the university near him (my alma mater) or just drive the ~1.5 hours to and from my current university every day. There are several pros and cons to each option.
The drive to my current school would require that I travel on a fairly dangerous highway every day, and I'm sure ~3 hours of driving every weekday would get exhausting. On the other hand, my alma mater is less respected than my current school because it's a smaller commuter school, and yet it's more academically rigorous (less chance at maintaining a perfect 4.0 for post-bacc work). The pre-med program is also much larger at my current school, and of course, there's the concern that adcoms would look down on the fact that I transferred at all. Conversely, my alma mater is in a larger, more diverse area with many more opportunities in terms of both employment and extracurriculars. I'm also more comfortable with the atmosphere at my alma mater, as it is much more non-trad student friendly, not that that matters much.
So, yeah...any thoughts on which option you think would be best IF I wound up moving back with my dad for about a year beginning in the Fall?
As I mentioned in the past, my severely mentally disturbed sister's presence makes moving back in with my dad a really, really unappealing "option," if you can call it that. However, recent events have introduced the possibility that she might not be at the house by the time my lease is up here. It's all really up in the air, but she was temporarily removed from the house by the state recently. She has since been readmitted to the home while social services investigates, etc. etc. The point is that she might no longer live there sooner than I thought or, at the very least, will know that she can't continue her current behavior because she will be removed from the home if she does.
No one really knows what will happen with that situation, but IF moving back in with my dad does become an option again (and if I utilize that option), I'm not sure whether it would be a better idea to transfer over to the university near him (my alma mater) or just drive the ~1.5 hours to and from my current university every day. There are several pros and cons to each option.
The drive to my current school would require that I travel on a fairly dangerous highway every day, and I'm sure ~3 hours of driving every weekday would get exhausting. On the other hand, my alma mater is less respected than my current school because it's a smaller commuter school, and yet it's more academically rigorous (less chance at maintaining a perfect 4.0 for post-bacc work). The pre-med program is also much larger at my current school, and of course, there's the concern that adcoms would look down on the fact that I transferred at all. Conversely, my alma mater is in a larger, more diverse area with many more opportunities in terms of both employment and extracurriculars. I'm also more comfortable with the atmosphere at my alma mater, as it is much more non-trad student friendly, not that that matters much.
So, yeah...any thoughts on which option you think would be best IF I wound up moving back with my dad for about a year beginning in the Fall?
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