Basically the same stuff you'd do to be a considerate human being.
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One thing our class does a lot of - Facebook. And not just for class stuff (though we definitely use it for asking questions before exams, scheduling, etc). It's pretty common for someone to post, "Hey, me and so-and-so are going to (insert event, movie, pub, whatever) tonight at 7. Come along if you want to!"
Yes to both of these! Make the effort to say hi to and chat with people you don't normally hang out with. Especially at the beginning... The people I spent a lot of time with at the very beginning of vet school are not the people I hang out with now. I found this group because I just started eating lunch with them and found I had a lot of similar interests.
Bottom line: cultivate a life outside of school. Be kind and considerate to everyone.
Absolutely agree with this. One of my friends takes herding lessons with her dogs. I take horseback riding lessons. It is a way for us to work with animals still but NOT have to talk about what's wrong with them, and we are doing these activities with people we don't see every day. It's just plain nice.
I promise you that there will be a dramafest on facebook or the class listserv at some point, but the best thing to do is just laugh and move on. Case in point: today we found out that our biggest/meanest final of this block was moved from this Thursday to next Wednesday and people had a fit over which day worked better for them personally, which turned into an all caps "screaming" match on fb. Very professional
Some of my close friends got worked up about it too, but you know what? Either way I'd have to take the stinking test and now I just get to giggle about the sarcastic comments people are leaving.
My friends and I have potlucks every now and then, and lately we've been having "Stitch and B*tch" parties where we get together, crochet/knit, and just talk about life. We try not to talk about school, and instead focus on family, one of our friends' farms (they have all sorts of animals with all sorts of things happening at any given time so we like updates), funny youtube videos, etc.
Edit: Coming from a school that was 75% male, vet med is a VERY different setting that I'm still getting used to. I do not get involved in drama unless someone just starts telling me about it. Otherwise, I don't hear many rumors and I don't care to know. I definitely come home frustrated, but that is less about my classmates and more about classes and my difficulty memorizing mounds of information.
Oh, Coquette is right about the baked goods. If you are a stress baker but don't want to eat all that sugar, your classmates will love you