1. Parental pressure and cultural pressure are not acceptable reasons to become a doctor. Period. It's a very hard, grueling long houred lifetime commitment, and you at least need to like it or have an interest or it will be awful. Think he'll on earth awful. You are going to be dedicating the bulk if your awake life to this career. It's not like going to church for a few hours every Sunday to keep your parents happy -- we are talking about most of your life here. Even people who truly LIKE medicine have a lot of those moments, sitting on the wards all night, wondering if it's all even worth it.
2. There Is no realistic ability to dabble in medicine for a few hours and then go to work at your real passion. There are part time jobs here and there but that's actually sometimes harder to get than you think, and sometimes it's kind of a farce because part time in medicine (or any professional field really) can still be 40 hours a week, while you get paid half the guy who works 70. I wouldn't go into medicine if you aren't planning to make a career of it.
3. It's troubling that you'd select two specialties, unseen, because you think they have less patient interaction. Neither is everyone's cup of tea. Path has the least patient interaction, (not none though -- you are still often in the room with the patient during biopsies) but there's a lot of clinincal med school rotations you'd need to go through to get there. And there's a fair amount if autopsy work involved in path training (and potentially beyond) which isn't within everyone's comfort zone. Autopsies on dead children and fire or drowning victims are things that IMHO if you see once that's more than enough for one lifetime - nasty business. And at the other end there are no jobs -- good luck finding the hours you want when there's such a glut in the market. Radiology actually has a ton of patient interaction these days -- they've become the needle and drain and catheter pushers of most hospitals. Not to mention sonography. Very hands on. This is a field that does a formal intern year too, so you'll get a ton of patient interaction there as well. It's one of the longer nonsurgical training paths -- five years of residency plus another year of fellowship. And then hours are long -- it's a volume business these days. And you have to like sitting in the dark looking at images for hours. And again this is amongst the worst specialty job markets so finding the job flexibility you need might not be so trivial. So I think your notion of doing one of these non-patient related "painless" fields is probably poorly thought out and comes from lack of exposure. Medicine is a tough job. Truly not for everyone. It's not something you can dabble in to make your parents happy. And it's a commitment to lifetime learning because frankly things change and you are expected to be continuously reading and keeping up. It's not like you learn it once and you are done.
4. mathematics is one of those fields where the old adage is that if you haven't "made it" by 35, you probably won't. so you for sure don't want to go down a path of med school and residency where you probably won't have time to do anything math related for literally a decade from age 20-30.
5. In general, if you think you can be happy at something else besides medicine you should do that other thing because medicine is hard and time intensive exacts a much bigger toll on your life than a lot of other paths. You don't even have that issue -- you don't know that you Lik medicine end really like something unrelated. Go do what you like. If at age 35, etc, you decide you aren't happy as a Mathematician, medicine will always be there. Your parents will get over it.
6. As for starting salary, residents start at 45k after four years of med school debt. You'd make more after residency, but you'd also be many years into your mathematician salary before that kicked In and likely in medicine would have a six digit student loan to service. And that's assuming you even get a job -- in fields like path that's not even a certainty.
Totally well said. Whichever way you cut it, medicine is a grind. You are either up for it or you are not.
There was someone on here not too long ago that thought he wanted medicine. Got into MS and HATED every minute of it--and that is just 1st and I think part of 2nd year. There are others that have ended up feeling the same way. They simply regretted taking the path but felt they had to finish it, b/c so much money had already been invested in it. If your parents are paying for your MS education, do they want to eat that loss when you walk away saying "Hell no!"?
I don't have any hard figures, but I'd be willing to bet as much as 60% of those that went to MS and residency, etc, regret/regretted doing so. It's just that they have/had loaned up for that amount of money and are sort of forced to keep going--that is, for most of such students anyway. Heck there are people that get full free rides for MS, don't/didn't have any real debt coming out of it, and they strongly dislike it or at least don't want to do it until they die or something close to that.
Some folks don't believe this, but I honestly believe medicine is pretty much a calling. I won't debate that, but I feel like I have worked long enough in healthcare to have witnessed the difference--in many cases, not necessarily all--of feeling called and committed and just doing something b/c not it is how you make a living.
It's not enough to have the grades and scores and money. In my mind, for most of the really good to great docs with whom I worked, there is this, I don't know, "X-factor" going on with them. It's not just about smarts, and it's not about money, ego, pride, status. OK for some of them those things are there;
but beyond any of that there is something more going on with them. It's a commitment to fellow human beings and science and research. It's about going the extra mile an not resenting doing so.
I think about the recently departed Dr. Jack Templeton, who worked with Dr. C. Everett Koop. Templeton's dad was loaded from mutual bonds and started the John Templeton Foundation. Dr. Templeton was chief of ped. surg at CHOP, and he only left relatively early (55 but after many years in practice) to run the philanthropic organization. Sure, b/c of his dad's money, certain things about his life were easier; but he was truly dedicated to medicine. His heart and soul were in it. It was his thing.
But consider this. Dr. Jack Templeton could have gone into anything he wanted w/o loans and the struggles that many students have. What did he choose? Medicine. Which part of medicine? Geesh. Surgery (brutal training there). And pediatric surgery of all things! Yea, that is NO easy path. It was certainly no cushy path, even though he had certain advantages that others didn't/don't have.
Even when you love what you do, in a field like this, there are still many MAJOR suck factors--so you had better love it. Taking on medicine is quite similar to me as getting married. You had better not enter into it lightly. You had better be committing and stay committed to the long haul.
If I were considering medicine just for the money, I'd save a heck of a lot of time and money and aggravation and just go CRNA; b/c FM or IM isn't necessarily going to make all that much more than they do. OK, maybe $50,000 grand or so--DEPENDING.
Financial security is an insane reason to go into medicine IMHO. So is doing it b/c your parents want you to do so.
But as my dad used to say, "Shoot...I mean, suit yourself."