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I think the issue here really is communication. If you just keep getting screened for STIs without any explanation I would be a little miffed too. Just like when my only partner was female I got miffed about being lectured about not using contraception. if your doctor were just to say, hey I just need to rule this out first because of whatever reason I feel like the encounter would be much more positive.
Although I'm totally thrown for a loop by the transman thing. Maybe the assumption would be that his partners would now be men who have sex with men, therefore putting him at higher risk? Idk.
Exactly. Not, "Well this is what the statistics say about you people, sorry if I hurt your precious feelings!" There still seems to be a tone as if orientation is in some way a "lifestyle choice," and doctors should understand that that idea is something very sensitive to their patient.