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I'm a "Type A" personality who is very self-driven and my SO seems a lot more... "laid back." He's been pre-med since day 1 of college and as a senior he doesn't have many of the "boxes" checked. I don't know what gives since he's been told time and again by friends and advisors what is needed to be competitive applicant. I am very worried he won't be able to get in this year, especially since he has not been committed to applying early, even though I have stressed out the importance of submitting everything ASAP many times.
I don't know what to do as I'm tired of nudging him to apply for jobs or get more involved in something that interests him to no avail. I want him to have a strong application so that we won't be forced to do long-distance for the next three years, but honestly at this point I'm really tired of mothering him about things he should do on his own and of being such a control freak; however, I fear that if I don't push him to try more things, he is just going to let things fall by the wayside and hurt his future. What should I do? How do I motivate him or prevent myself from being so pushy?
I don't know what to do as I'm tired of nudging him to apply for jobs or get more involved in something that interests him to no avail. I want him to have a strong application so that we won't be forced to do long-distance for the next three years, but honestly at this point I'm really tired of mothering him about things he should do on his own and of being such a control freak; however, I fear that if I don't push him to try more things, he is just going to let things fall by the wayside and hurt his future. What should I do? How do I motivate him or prevent myself from being so pushy?