I will honestly (and anonymously) say that I have been quite disappointed and unhappy with my med school experience so far. I am having a lot of trouble fitting in and I guess to be quite honest, I don't feel that I have a single friend in class. I have a bunch of classmates I can make small talk with during class, etc. and smile when I see them in public, etc. but I never get into the social stuff outside of class. I go to a P/F school so it's not like uber competitive or anything, but there is the whole type A-med student vibe that still goes on again and again.
I also moved away from home this year and I'm feeling quite lonely. I don't get along with my roommate (in my class) and it's really putting a strain on my studies. I failed a recent exam by 1% and got a 'talk' from higher-ups, which I found was kinda stupid (considering the midterm was worth a small chunk of the final thing and my average in the class was still 70 something given the other components). But yeah, I guess I am sounding very whiny at this point, but I can't help but feel miserable.
In a way, maybe I can think of it as 'punishment' for not having to try many times to get into med (I got in on my 1st try). But I just keep thinking it's not really fair that I have to be so miserable and alone.
I've tried a bunch of the typical things that people do when they try to make friends, but I just feel that I missed the boat in the beginning of the year and now it's just super hard when everyone is super cliquey.
Yes, it may be due to my personality, I don't know. But I never had these issues in the past and I miss my friends from home greatly. I don't really understand how I could've changed into this person with a 'freaky' personality in just over a summer when my other friends never have issues with me and when I go to new events, etc. I always make friends easily.
I know I can probably get through it eventually, but it sucks to feel that there's 3 more years of all this.
Thanks for reading all that.
I also moved away from home this year and I'm feeling quite lonely. I don't get along with my roommate (in my class) and it's really putting a strain on my studies. I failed a recent exam by 1% and got a 'talk' from higher-ups, which I found was kinda stupid (considering the midterm was worth a small chunk of the final thing and my average in the class was still 70 something given the other components). But yeah, I guess I am sounding very whiny at this point, but I can't help but feel miserable.
In a way, maybe I can think of it as 'punishment' for not having to try many times to get into med (I got in on my 1st try). But I just keep thinking it's not really fair that I have to be so miserable and alone.
I've tried a bunch of the typical things that people do when they try to make friends, but I just feel that I missed the boat in the beginning of the year and now it's just super hard when everyone is super cliquey.
Yes, it may be due to my personality, I don't know. But I never had these issues in the past and I miss my friends from home greatly. I don't really understand how I could've changed into this person with a 'freaky' personality in just over a summer when my other friends never have issues with me and when I go to new events, etc. I always make friends easily.
I know I can probably get through it eventually, but it sucks to feel that there's 3 more years of all this.
Thanks for reading all that.