A. Snarky is your spin. Never had that in mind. Honestly I am totally beginning to think you project a lot when it comes to me and how YOU THINK I THINK.
B. Semantics: learning versus training.
C. I really don't care so much about such ego-based crap; b/c in truth and sincerity, I am there for the patients and families, first. I couldn't care less who choses to listen or learn from me one way or another, so long as the patient does well, and we get him, her, them what they need. The ego-crap is something with which your really young, NY, chippy RNs had an issue. Where I have worked, it's about the patient. So who cares whose idea you make it sound like or who gets the credit? Our satisfaction is in knowing the patient is stable and is getting what he or she needs and can move forward.
D. I can only imagine what terrible situations and nurses with which you had to work in NY. I am very sorry it left such a negative taste in your mouth and some kind of long-lasting ecchymosis. But your mass hatred is based on a generalization.
Vivien didn't get ahead and get to go to medical school not just b/c of Jim Crow; but b/c of the push to keep him in the research, b/c Blalock KNEW he needed him. It was as much about self-interest as anything, and Vivien had already committed so much to the work.
Your sad interpretation of snarky example is quite unfortunate--but seriously, you injected that on to the example.
I call total projection on you, especially with the use of the word snarky. That is so completely your deal. And You really aren't all that old but you seem like a crotchety old man already. Wow and sad.
Learning and training--semantics.
I already stated that formal evals should come from the most appropriate people. That has nothing to do with being open and able to learn from everyone--and yes--including your patients and families.
I wish you would stop this negative reading into stuff with me. It's starting to become a bit annoying, and in fact it has always been unnecessary. Get over it already. Your issue. Your problem.