I am sorry if this has been asked before, but does anybody have a good suggestion on how to confront somebody who has yet to submit a letter of recommendation?
I e-mailed him on May 19th, and got a response May 22nd saying he would happily do it. I gave a deadline of mid-June just to be safe and waited patiently. I sent the same e-mail to my other writers and they all submitted it within 2 weeks.
I then sent another e-mail on June 9th just to give a friendly reminder about the deadline. I did not receive a response until July 1st, where he said he would finish it in the next coming days because he was out of town. I realize he might still be working on it and will finish it soon, but I was wondering what I should do if by next week it is still not submitted.
He has a history of being lazy about these types of things, which is why I stayed on his back to make sure it was done. I understand he is doing a lot for me so I want to be very careful and appreciative, but I also do not want to wait too long and have this hurt me.
So what should I do? And if I have my secondaries submitted, when is the earliest they actually review everything, just so I know the LOR is not the thing holding me back.