SDN Members don't see this ad. About the ads. The guy I am dating and I sometimes go days without speaking and when we have a moment it feels as if his head is elsewhere. This week I haven't talked to him for more than 10 minutes. Sent him a quick text and had a short phone convo. That's it. Am I giving him too much space? Since we don't speak everyday does it mean he's just not that into me or am I doing the right thing by waiting?