Post residency -- about 3 months at a small hospital with virtually no support and call Q4 weekends and call for unassigned Q4 days -- the call is really a support pager for the 9 million nursing homes -- and yes, I did get a page to continue centrum silver, dulcolax, vitamin D and fish oil at 0035 ----
That's sounds truly gad-awful, but there's no reason to be in that situation for much longer. Go work somewhere you are associated with a hospital that has hospitalists and work an entirely outpatient job. I personally know several FPs that make over the national average salary for FM and they see about 25 patients per day, 8-5, Mon-Fri with a 12-1pm lunch every day. Zero hospital call and all their patients are admitted to hospitalists. Zero hospital rounding and about 1 after hours call per week, rarely if ever after midnight. If so, it's, "I'll work you in first thing Monday," or if it can't wait, "Go to the ER." They work no nights, no weekends, no holidays. Ever. No 2 am dulcolax-Tylenol-need-a-foley-needs-to-fart call from any nurses. Go find that job, or make that job.
On the flip side. EM residency at the age of 50+? I won't tell another grown man what to do with his life, but...
"Whatchoo talkin' about, Willis?!"
Seriously? I did EM for 10 years, full-time grinding out shift work, and I'm moving in the opposite direction (away from shift work) as I get older. Maybe it's easy to say since I've had the codes, the chaos, the circus, the anarchy and the stories to tell. And there's things I loved about it, but ohh..... the nights. Oh my God, the nights, back to days, back to nights, not knowing when it's night or day, or Monday or Saturday, wondering why I'm wide awake at 3 am when I should be asleep and falling asleep at 2 pm when I need to be waking up.
The nights. As you get older, they're brutal. Don't let people tell you you can do EM and find a job where you can avoid this. These are people that think 6pm - 4am is not a "night" shift. There's nothing that offsets the circadian rhythm disruption. Nothing. You have to deal with it.
The cost of doing another residency. You'll never earn that back at the age of 51. Also, by switching to EM, you shorten your career span. FM- you can do it till your 80. Why?
No nights.
The codes, the traumas, the adrenaline? It fades. Tachyphylaxis my friend. Then when that fades and the codes are routine, what are you doing? Mostly family medicine now (except for the occasional code) only in the ED, but now at 3 am, or Saturday night, or on Christmas, or Fourth of July, or Super Bowl Sunday.
Find a cushy outpatient FM gig with hospitalists to cover the off hours. Get into triathlons or 5k/10k/marathons if you want adrenaline highs. But residency #2 after an already late in life residency just having finished?
Do you have a significant other? What do they think? It's a pretty big sacrifice to support someone going through a residency and they need a payoff, too, such as being able to see their loved one. I don't know how many sig others are willing to sign up for unlimited #'s of residencies? A 1 yr fellowship to advance the career and increase salary? Maybe. But trash residency #1 to do another with more adrenaline? That's a lot to ask.
That being said, I won't tell a grown man what to do with his life. Do what's best for you and your family. But, starting EM at 50+....?
Ooh....the nights, the nights, the nights.