rougemarie said:
I see that we have pretty much a consensus across the board that we won't counsel the patients who do not fill the prescription in our pharmacy due to liability. I understand that.
Let me offer you a twist: suppose your uncle A asked you about the medications he has during one of those Thanksgiving dinner, you don't know him very well, only saw him once a year. Would you counsel him, knowing that he does not fill the prescription in your pharmacy, only saw him occasionally? Or how about your church friends? social friends from your local club you belong to? can you trust that they won't sue? would you still say, "sorry I cannot counsel you, you better check with your pharmacist?"
If so, I believe there's a double-standard here going on.
Ok....I've actually been in this situation - UNFORTUNATELY!!!! I actually thought about posting this as a ethical "what if" question. So...I'll post it now....I had a very good friend - my husband was a best man in their wedding, we had children at similar times, we had a 20 year friendship. For whatever reasons (we could go on and on and on.....) she developed a mental illness (or it was finally manifested....) and her marriage began collapsing. My husband and I, friends with them both, provided all the support friends do. However, a complication developed - she attempted suicide - was unsucessfull. She was treated and after a few months into therapy (enough for the medications to become fully therapeutic) she sought me out, not just for friendship and support, but also for professional advice. Now.....WOW!!!!! - big complications for me. Had I posted this, I would have asked the current pharmacy students and pharmacists - what would you do.
I'll add - she at this point identified her OB-GYN as being not complete in the monitoring of her medication - he was the one who initially prescribed. However, assume, as in the case of the stranger who would have been you in your case, I might not have known this. Now...the empathetic friend may have given pharmaceutical advice. But, I knew she was not yet stable (a patient 6 months after a suicide attempt, altho in pharmaceutical steady state is not yet healthy mentally) - again - I knew her - not you, as a stranger. I chose, both professionally and personally, to refer her to her psychiatrist who could better assess her concerns.
I discussed this situation with my husband, another health professional (dentist). I could not be held professionally liable since I was not the dispensing pharmacist. However, I was very concerned about civil liabilities and we pursued how extensive our umbrella liability policy was (sufficient) in case I had inadvertently given advice or she later claimed I had. She wanted to sue the OB-GYN.
The final outcome was, unfortunately, her second suicide attempt was successful. I will forever remember this very difficult personal and professional situation. So...my not so brief answer is - no....I would not give out information to my Uncle A, church friend or otherwise. I will always refer them to the professional they use. I feel strongly it would otherwise impinge upon the medical/pharmaceutical relationship which is very important in continuity of therapy.
I apologize for the length.....but, IMO there is no double standard and as I replied to you previously, I would hope and I believe I did exhibit a greater degree of empathy than you infer we have!