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I am a M1. I was raped and stalked by a professor in my last semester of college. I then went straight into medical school after a short summer where I went through a miserable judicial process. I was diagnosed with depression and PTSD shortly after arriving at school. I am/was functional enough to attend class regularly and sit for some exams, but recently failed my last exam by less than 1% and thus have to remediate the class. It will show on my transcript, assuming I pass remediation, as "pass with remediation." In addition, I have very poor faculty evaluations because I am not fully "engaged" with my peers in class.
I get that people have a hard time adjusting to medical school, and I am guessing that the combination of being far from home, not having found a support network yet, adjusting to a very different kind of coursework, and the more recent trauma resulted in my bad exam.
There are a few administrators at my school who know about the traumatic events, although my professors don't know. Is this something that would go in my deans letter? (Do deans letters always have to explain passes with remediations? I was under the impression that this was the case) Would I have a choice about it, and if I did, would you advise me to let residency programs know about the reasons for my bad first semester? If I had, say, a family member in the hospital or if I got mono during the entire block I would have no problem sharing that with residency programs. In some sense, what I experienced was no different from any other unsettling life event. But I understand that there is a stigma / victim-blaming associated with mental health issues as well as sexual assault.
Finally, would the failed class close doors for any medical specialties or for landing a top-notch residency program? I'm currently too depressed to actually care about this, but I also know that eventually I would want to know the answer to this. I am having a hard time in medical school overall but I am pretty sure that by the time I apply to residency my depression and post-traumatic stress will be dealt with; it's just that right now things are still a bit acute. The admin will probably advise me to take a leave of absence, but I am afraid that it would look worse to do that than to just suck it up and get through the rest of (at least) M1 and M2-- let me know if that is the case. In all likelihood I won't fail any other classes because the class I failed was notoriously difficult and apparently it gets easier after this block. If it makes a difference, am interested in path, rads, neuro, and medical genetics in the northeast.
First of all, I think it is remarkable that you have been able to do this well so soon after this event. I think it's best to let aPD answer the details of your question about residency letters, etc. With regard to closing down doors, I don't believe so. Especially since you're a MS-1 and your list of interests is already broad. You might change your mind as you move forward and there will be many possibilities for you based on future performance.
Finally - your original post with your username was placed elsewhere on the forum. I have deleted that reference to your username and reposted it here where you'll find responses. If you respond here, I will delete your username before posting as I always do.