I just need to get something off my mind....
So I currently live with my boyfriend and his brother. I love my boyfriend very much and see us getting married someday (we're already talking about getting engaged
), so I would have rather just moved in with him. But, we agreed to live with his brother for 1 year so that we could all save money. It's a 3 bedroom/1 bathroom apartment, so there is plenty of space, but I absolutely cannot stand living with his brother.
When I first moved in, my boyfriend and his brother were both horrible at cleaning/picking up after themselves and I seriously felt like a maid. I told my boyfriend that if he didn't learn to clean up after himself that would be a deal breaker for me. He took that seriously and is doing a much better job cleaning/etc and now understands why it is important for us to respect the communal space.
He brother, on the other hand, has seriously not cleaned once in the last 6 months. We had to ask him to vacuum the living room rug and he's only done it once in the last 6 months. He almost never cleans his own dishes, leaving them in the sink. My boyfriend and I run the dishwasher 3 or so times a week, his brother runs it about once a month. And when he actually does do the dishes he complains and curses. Don't even get me started on the bathroom... he has left **** and pee stains on the toilet seat after using it... and I know it was him because many times I have literally gone to use the bathroom 5 minutes after he left.
But, this morning was just about my breaking point. I had come back to the apartment after missing my bus to wait for the next bus and he must have thought I wasn't there. I know that a women can sometimes be messy during a certain time of the month, but I always clean up after myself. Well, this morning I overheard him complaining about tampons/pads in the trash "every f***ing month." Well, duh, where the hell else am I supposed to put them... in the toilet so they clog it up. And it's not like I leave them open/exposed, I try to "conceal" the contents as best as possible (sorry if this rant is a little gross, but I know the women understand). And then he walks into the living room when I am sitting and acts awkward knowing that I just overheard him, asking me how the weather looks outside.
I am so fed up with his laziness and negative attitude towards everything. It's not my fault that he's 31, has never ever had a girlfriend (and honestly with that lack of tolerance I don't know if he ever will get a girlfriend), and never goes out to hang with friends (my boyfriend said that his brother is introverted because he got teased a lot in grade school... who hasn't - get over it already). I don't want to start a feud because I still have 6 months to go, but this is just driving me nuts!