Cshep and Marsala,
First of all,
CONGRATULATIONS on your amazing accomplishment! Seriously, some people just don't understand how tough this is, and that's why we have SDN to celebrate with people who truly know what an accomplishment it actually is! You guys rock, congrats!
Now, I know SDN cannot replace the feeling of proud parents, and I have been there myself and understand. I have done nothing but be practically the perfect daughter, but it was never enough. My brother... still lives at home at 23 and goes from job to job, sits on the back porch and smokes weed (I love my brother, but for arguments sake...). Me... I have had a job since I was 15, my parents have never paid for a penny of my expenses since then, I went to a good college with a full scholarship, got great grades, graduated, got a wonderful job (that I still am scared to leave for vet school), and accepted to vet school.
My dad thinks veterinarians are useless and that animals are "just animals, why do they need a doctor?"
He's the same person who when I would bring home a straight As would say "Why not A+s?" Because they don't exist here, Dad... highschool dropout Dad!
I got into a few schools for undergrad including UF, and I chose FSU... he wanted me to go to UF (like he knows anything about school lol). Now that I got into UF, he is finally ok to tell people where I go to school. REALLY DAD?!?!?!
My brother? Everything is still paid for, he doesn't pay rent, food, bills, nothing. Just sits there and is the favorite sibling...
on them!
I'm sorry you all are going through even worse than this. I can't even believe you haven't been able to celebrate with your families. I haven't either since I live across the country, but I'm sure if I went home, there would be some sort of celebration. Mostly because my dad likes to make himself look good to other people, not to actually be proud of me lol.
If you all need to celebrate over the top, we can have an online SDN party!!!
We all recognize and commend you on your amazing accomplishment! Here is cake and balloons for you!