There is always time for sex.
I have absolutely no desire to date/find a guy within the vet school. They're great guys, but I am up to my cojones in vet school already I could not come home and hang out with that at night. Thus I've basically resigned myself to waiting til after vet school is over to cultivate a relationship with someone not affiliated with my profession
This.
There is always time for sex.
I actually have a rule, re dating vet students. I don't do it. Not that there are many good candidates in vet school anyway
. But I spend 40hrs a week in a classroom with them - I then study with them - I play sport with some of them - I party with some of them - I live with one of them - I work with vets - I live at a vet clinic - for the love of god, the LAST thing I need is to date someone from vet school!!! Not only that, but I know about every single person they have kissed/had sex with/held hands with/looked at sideways in the last 3 years. I do not want to be added to the "smut list"
I've been trying to mix dating into my work and school schedule for the last 2 years, and have failed pretty miserably.
Nobody ever likes to be told that studying is more important than sex. Or that you need to skip a date because you're still at work and you want to help them take the eye out. My genetic inability to sugar-coat anything probably helps this process along to it's terminal point.
I'm vaguely hoping I can get back into dating once I go to school, and find someone with overlapping interests and schedule, but I also realize that premise is pretty ******ed.
My boyfriend is an electrician. He is totally fine with being told those things. Mainly because he knows I love him and will make time for him later - but also because he knows I've been on this path long before him, and if we end badly, will be on it way after him. He loves dogs, and finds what I do interesting, but he is also the number one person who lets me unwind and forget after a rough day at school or work. And you need one of those!!!
If you let your whole life be vet, you WILL go batsh*t insane. You'll be like the owner of the cat im taking care of right now - she wanted to get the cats tail taxidermied after it was amputated?!
But seriously, you do need outside people. I second whoever said you were dating crappy people.
MY RANT:
So we have a cat in the clinic I live at atm...
Like, 20 years ago, this woman ran over her 20yo cat and killed it. She was like, 22 at the time and felt terrible (as you do) and couldnt stomach getting another cat for 10 years. Then, when the new cat was 4, it got hit by a car. She then went insane. The cats tail had to be amputated, rendering it permanently faecally and urinarily incontinent. She looked in to getting the tail taxidermied, until the surgeon pointed out the tail would have to be shaved for the surgery... She then took to changing nappies on the poor cat, and has designated a room at her house just for him that he can have "nappy free time" in. Of course, she does not have a partner or kids.
Fast forward 6 years, and the cat has developed a protein losing enteropathy. It is trying so, so hard to die. It had to be resusciated at the emergency clinic, where afterward it spent 4 days in a coma. It has a central line and a nasogastric tube. When it woke up, she insisted that it get moved here because we are more "nurturing". Since then her cat has plugged along, staying alive, but not really improving - but she insists it is. EVEN THOUGH ITS NOT!!!
So this poor cat has to live in a cage, almost permanently covered in his own faeces and urine, because we cant keep him clean enough, being fed through his nose and with a billion lines running in to him, getting a billion drugs a day. He's been like this for a week now, with no real improvement. Yesterday he started spiking a fever - so that central line has to come out, but we've got no good peripheral vein. And we need fluids to maintain blood pressure in this cat - he'll tank without it. He's started getting a skin infection from lying in his own urine. And this woman just completely fails to see that her cat is dying, a slow, horrible death! I dont understand how people can "love" something so much and yet be so selfish!!!