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I'm creating this thread in hopes that there is someone out there who is going through a similar situation. I just started my Ph.D. program in Clinical Psychology this past September, and am now extremely unhappy. Not because of the workload, or the professors, or even the commute. It's my fellow students.
They have all ostracized me, and now I can often tell that they're exchanging significant glances when I ask a certain question, etc. and that they talk about me behind my back. A few of you suggested that I try to be friendlier with them and whatnot, and while I think that's awesome advice, I didn't start the program out like this. I WAS friendly, and always went out of my way to get everyone what they needed, etc. The last straw was when our TA for one class gave us the wrong personality test: I went to school on a Sunday, made photocopies, scanned the test, and sent it to everyone. I think 2 people thanked me.
They all look out for each other when it comes to our assignments, etc., and no one cares if I get what I need. For those of you in Ph.D./Psy.D. programs, you know that you're often required to do group activities for various purposes. It's not easy to successfully participate in these when no one wants to be with you. I hate having to deal with this problem when I got into graduate school to excel and grow as a professional and an individual.
Can anyone commiserate?
They have all ostracized me, and now I can often tell that they're exchanging significant glances when I ask a certain question, etc. and that they talk about me behind my back. A few of you suggested that I try to be friendlier with them and whatnot, and while I think that's awesome advice, I didn't start the program out like this. I WAS friendly, and always went out of my way to get everyone what they needed, etc. The last straw was when our TA for one class gave us the wrong personality test: I went to school on a Sunday, made photocopies, scanned the test, and sent it to everyone. I think 2 people thanked me.
They all look out for each other when it comes to our assignments, etc., and no one cares if I get what I need. For those of you in Ph.D./Psy.D. programs, you know that you're often required to do group activities for various purposes. It's not easy to successfully participate in these when no one wants to be with you. I hate having to deal with this problem when I got into graduate school to excel and grow as a professional and an individual.
Can anyone commiserate?
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