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So, I was fortunate enough to get into school for this coming fall. Have been excited about it since getting in a few months ago, have been getting the paperwork in, the financial aid set, gave notice at my job, etc.
I know I should be nothing but happy, and I know it's almost rude to be writing all this, and I apologize for that. I'm just hoping someone who's gone through this part of the non-trad thing might be able to be of help...
Tonight I think it all hit me, what all this means, and I don't know if I can do it. I don't mean actually doing well in school, I'm not worried about that, nor being able to be a good doctor -- I think that'll go ok, too. I just don't know if I can do what I need to do to get through the transition. I have to move back across the country again to where I happily left, thinking I'd never go back. I have to leave a career that I've built up for 8 years. I have to leave the life I've built where I've lived for the past 6 -- not just job, but flatmates and friends, social groups, volunteer groups, activist activities, even just the scenery that's become my home. I did a lot of moving around prior to living here, and I'd thought for so long that this was it, this was home finally.
I think I'd been deluding myself somehow into thinking that I could keep being a geologist AND become a doctor. That going to the latter didn't really mean trashing what has been 8 years of my life's work. That really, leaving my entire social network would be fine and I'd make a new one and that somehow I'd been misremembering how hard it was to build the one I have here, now.
I'm just so scared.
I know I should be nothing but happy, and I know it's almost rude to be writing all this, and I apologize for that. I'm just hoping someone who's gone through this part of the non-trad thing might be able to be of help...
Tonight I think it all hit me, what all this means, and I don't know if I can do it. I don't mean actually doing well in school, I'm not worried about that, nor being able to be a good doctor -- I think that'll go ok, too. I just don't know if I can do what I need to do to get through the transition. I have to move back across the country again to where I happily left, thinking I'd never go back. I have to leave a career that I've built up for 8 years. I have to leave the life I've built where I've lived for the past 6 -- not just job, but flatmates and friends, social groups, volunteer groups, activist activities, even just the scenery that's become my home. I did a lot of moving around prior to living here, and I'd thought for so long that this was it, this was home finally.
I think I'd been deluding myself somehow into thinking that I could keep being a geologist AND become a doctor. That going to the latter didn't really mean trashing what has been 8 years of my life's work. That really, leaving my entire social network would be fine and I'd make a new one and that somehow I'd been misremembering how hard it was to build the one I have here, now.
I'm just so scared.