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Bumping this thread (that I made a fool of myself in by getting stupidly angry in) to throw in my experience from my now completed cycle. I wrote about my wife and children in every secondary I completed. I ended up getting 6 interviews this cycle and spoke about my family in every one. I went 6 for 6 in acceptances and now have some tough choices to make. I'm glad that I was upfront about having kids because I got a ton of great info about student-parent groups, local schools, and how other students with families balanced their time.
To be sure I had clear answers for how I planned to/knew I could handle being both a father and a med student and was prepared every time the questions were asked. In the end, my family is a huge part of who I am and why I'm here, and to have not spoken about them would not have presented the real me and would have weakened my personal narrative.
Congrats! To give you a little more encouragement, with one semester of med school under my belt I can tell you that being a father (I have two toddlers) has had no negative impact on my studies thus far. I work my ass off 7-5 M-F, I study at night after the family goes to bed for a few hours, but that's pretty much been it. I have still been able to keep my weekends and evenings open for family time with the exception of test weeks (~3 weeks/ semester). Now to be sure, I know that things will only get more difficult from here on out; But with a little organization, a **** load of anki cards, and a love for what I do, its been pretty easy so far.
Good luck!