I'm a patient (sorry) but this just happened to me. Anaesthesiologist gave toradol without surgeon's knowledge...ended up admitted after bleeding (my platelets are useless).
My view was/is that the anaesthesiologist did do his job. However, the surgeon (has operated on me a #of times) knows me better and would have been able to provide insight as to why toradol use would be a bad idea in that situation.
Even if they were both new to me, I guess as a patient, I would hope that the two docs in charge of my wellbeing in the operating room are on the same page...
But then again, I have no clue about the kinds of politics you all have to deal with!