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Read this online. What do you all think?
"Transference neurosis transaction:
All of us battle with this especially in our most intimate relationships.
One of the most crucial factors in the selection of a mate involves the transference neurosis exercise. Answer these questions:
In the first decade of life.
The thing that you always wanted from Mother and never got was...... ?
The thing that you always wanted from Father and never got was...... ?
(Usually people answer things like love, time, encouragement, affection, information, direction and so forth)"
Most people in some way will select a partner that also never gives the things they always wanted and never got.
"Transference neurosis transaction:
All of us battle with this especially in our most intimate relationships.
One of the most crucial factors in the selection of a mate involves the transference neurosis exercise. Answer these questions:
In the first decade of life.
The thing that you always wanted from Mother and never got was...... ?
The thing that you always wanted from Father and never got was...... ?
(Usually people answer things like love, time, encouragement, affection, information, direction and so forth)"
Most people in some way will select a partner that also never gives the things they always wanted and never got.
......and when you do don't talk like this in front of her!
